Is my boyfriend’s friend into me or just overly attached and lonely?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been together for the past several months. He has a friend (male) that happens to live 2 doors down from me, to which I had never known until my boyfriend introduced me to him after going over with boyfriend a few times, I'm very kept to myself person. He seemed to be an alright person until the one day he came over and started venting about his baby mama, how she wants to move on and started bringing up my boyfriend's past and making himself sound like he's "better" for example he told me my boyfriend had to go to anger management because it was court-ordered where as he said he took it at his own free will and just other things almost as though he's trying to make himself sound "better" than him plus he started texting, snapchatting, calling me on a daily basis (my boyfriend is kinda not good at answering his phone) and also applied to the same place I work, so I started keeping my distance from him and told my boyfriend about it to which my boyfriend told me to then tell his buddy to stop then, but I have not said anything, I've just made distance, such as not answering him at all, not going over there anymore with my boyfriend and he kind of backed off... then the other day he found out his baby mama cheated on him when they wete together (this was 2 years ago) but is now back to calling, texting, snapchating me again to which I keep ignoring his calls, texts, etc. I guess he was looking for a ride to the store (my boyfriend told me) I have not even opened them. I find this behavior to be odd and uncomfortable. It almost feels like he's trying to get between us, but my boyfriend said he's his only friend&texts him all the time too, which could be true, but in my opinion it's too much and it all seems weird especially that he applied for a job at the same place I work, but havr since quit as I got a different, better job. My gut just has a bad feeling. Does this friend have a thing for me or am I crazy?

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy relationship vibes and call out the red flags others ignore 😉

You’re not crazy. Huge red flag parade here.

He’s comparing himself to your boyfriend, oversharing, trauma-dumping, lovebombing your phone, then “coincidentally” working where you work. That’s not just lonely, that’s inappropriate and boundary-pushy.

Trust your gut. Keep ignoring, block if needed, and make it clear to your boyfriend you’re uncomfortable and won’t engage with his friend privately.

[Alex-Snow]

I think the guy may have a thing for you. Is he single? Just go with your gut and let your boyfriend know that his friend is creeping you out a bit. Has it messed with your relationship or sex with your boyfriend at all?

[Asker]

Ew I hope not. Not interested in him like that at all even if I was single (barf, like it makes me ill to my stomach) absolutely no! No ot has not effected our relationship, boyfriend kept telling me to tell him he needs to stop. I al nust trying to figure out a way of doing it that doesn't cause problems with their friendship but yes, it is giving me creep vibes. It does feel as though he is tryimg get in the middle of our relationship.

[Alex-Snow]

The creep has the potential to mess with your relationship. I still think ur boyfriend should tell the guy to chill. Hopefully your boyfriend is not discussing your personal or sex life with the guy?

[EmmaMary]

It would appear to be obvious that he probably wants to give you a damn good fucking.

[Asker]

Well that is never going to happen because I am not into him at all, even if I was single, absolutely not.. there is zero feelings/attraction there from my side (ewwe, barf) I hardly know him and it makes it tricky because he is my boyfriend's friend and is my neighbor so trying to figure out a way to set boundaries without jeopardizing my boyfriend's friendship with him because apparently ignoring h doesn't seem to be getting the point across and it's very frustrating/annoying! I havr not toldy boyfriend this yet, but I will be soon. I just get busy with work.

[Nikki1989]

Most men only want one thing. Why would this dude be any different?

[exitseven]

Yikes, and I thought my life was crazy.

[Asker]

What is that supposed to mean? Also, it's not like I asked to be involved in this to this extent

[In_Trance]

Seems like a loser