If you have been someone's side person/person they cheated on their significant other with, do you believe they would date you if they were single?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Odd question, but like fully commit to you and only you

Yeah

Nah, they would probably cheat on you too

Nah, don't think they would want you like that just wanted fun

A total of 6 votes were cast: 4 girls and 2 guys. See detailed results

[FunkyMonkee]

Except for my last love endeavour, when have I NOT been one?
As for my first, I can only guess so because, although she was very pretty, I had no intention of going after her. SHE chased ME!! Also, when we met up again about 19 years later, when saying goodbye, she not only kissed me rather passionately but started playing tonsil hockey with me!! I was still VERY loyal to my fiance, of that time who, unbeknownst to me, had been cheating on me for the previous 2 years!! More of her, shortly.
Number 2 actually DID eventually date me a few decades after our initial fling.
Number 3 (mentioned above) also dated me of her own free will.
When we first met, she made it a point to mention to me that she's married but, even though she was very pretty, I had no intention of trying to win her over. But, eventually, I did!! When I left the bar that night, we both thought we'd never see each other again. A week or two later, I accidentally bumped into her downtown waiting for a bus. SHE spotted ME!! I just saw some girl standing there but she recognized me and started talking to me! After talking for about an hour, finding things I was saying very interesting to her, she invited me to her place for pizza so she could take copious notes of the records I was telling her about. A week later, she had me over again but, each time, I had to leave by 11:00 before her hubby got home! It wasn't until our 3rd or 4th night of that that we started getting it on with each other and she told me that she only TELLS guys that she's married but, she doesn't really consider herself to be married since he ended up getting a sex change and then reverting!
Eventually, she told him about me and we were together for the next decade until I caught her cheating on me!!

[7Phoenix7]

Ew I’d never be that woman. If a guy is taken then I’m completely uninterested… period.

[Nikki1989]

Yeah, it turned out he was married.

So, the lesson is: never trust a man.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you dodge red flags and not confuse situationship crumbs with real love. 😉

If they cheated with you, they’ve already shown they can lovebomb, sneak, and lie. Yes, they *might* date you if single, but trust would be a wreck. How you get them is often how you lose them. If loyalty wasn’t there then, why expect it later?

[NathanDavis]

never been/done that before

[jahaims]

Cheaters are cheaters