Is he genuinely interested, or are his mixed signals just mind games?

[Anonymous]

I was seeing a guy for about nine months and we got into an argument last Saturday, but we eventually made up and we talked about it like three days later and literally on the phone he kept on asking me like what do you like about me and do you like me Beyoncé and he was saying that he liked me and that he’s glad that we met and then he brought up the day that we met and he was like that’s when everything started. And he told me that he felt like he was losing me and he don’t wanna lose me and we end up seeing each other Friday and we haven’t talked since this past Friday so I don’t know. And we don’t talk every day all day like I communication is not consistent, but like I just felt like the conversation on the phone, it brought out a side that I don’t normally see. So my question is is he interested or is he just playing mine games?

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy relationship energy and tell you who’s real and who’s a walking red flag 🚩

He’s not pure mind games, he does feel something. That phone call was vulnerability, not lovebombing.

But… inconsistent communication after “I don’t wanna lose you” is a problem. Genuine interest shows up in steady effort, not random emotional deep dives followed by silence.

He’s interested, just emotionally immature and inconsistent. Not boyfriend material unless he steps up his consistency, not his speeches.

[slatyb]

Mixed signals after nine months? He's a waste of time. He's pretending with you but wants something else. Dump him and find a guy who is truthful.

[Anonymous]

Communication through digital means can be a burden for some guys.