Last year after we were going out for a few months I did Chace him I didn't understand why he changed and not paying enough attention tO me. It drove me to a point where I was losing my mind I kept wondering what he's Doing, I kept doing stupid things I kept crying in front of him and having a go at him. Then we broke up which made me realize that I shouldn't depend on him so much and even though I was heart broken I started learning that I musnt attach myself to people and with time and attention I was getting other guys I was feeling better. My boyfriend got back intouch with me he missed me and wanted me back blahblah and after I thought about it and got some space to make my decision I said OK. Now where back together I have all these importand events gradduating exams getting a job party's + a relative died and I havnt been giving him much attention when we got back he told me I need to text him I been to call him and when I did it was a 1 way conversation. So I can't be stuffed with that and thought if he wants to talk to me he'll talk. He dosnt he just tells me to call him last night I called him and we were talking about it and I told him I just feels like dead conversations. Then he wanted to go and then I got a text later saying-if it's dead conversation why don't you put more effort into it that's what I want from my girlfriend I don't understand how you can go for days without talking to me and be fine with that , I want a girl to chase me make me talk not say what why. When he sent that I didn't reply I just think he's got a cheek because I put so much effort in last year and it wasn't good enough and now he wants me to do that . I'm not going through that stress and pain again ! It should be mutual we should both be talking seeing each other touching each other like a normal couple not playing this let's make them chase me game. What should I do about this?
Sweetie, I would suggest to move on. It's pretty obvious that he wants to have you on his terms. That's not the way a relationship is supposed to work. I know it can be very hard to do that but you have to steele yourself and get ready to do it. If he really loved you, nothing would have changed. Good luck.
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That is hurting for you. Ask yourself is that love and mutual "healthy" relation?
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