Guys, would you get insecure if your girlfriend was hotter than you?

[Anonymous]

Do you feel like she'd be more likely to cheat, etc because she's able to find someone better if she wanted to?

[oneconfusedlady]

Been in a situation like this. He kind of gave up because he always felt inadequate (also in things other than looks) but he never seemed to get the memo I didn't care! Looks shouldn't have anything to do with it though! Just be wary of the ones who use their body to always get what they want.

Related, I always try to be presentable for my guy because it makes him feel good to parade me around and I love it if I'm the one giving him an ego boost!

[Arwens-Fire]

You mean you guys broke up because he felt inadequate?Thats how he stopped trying?

[oneconfusedlady]

For the most part, yes. A bit crazy? Yes, and I'm pretty sure his family fed him that idea as well. Oh well, he's young and naive but will hopefully learn to not toss someone aside like that who cared... but I found someone better after anyways, so it turned out well for me! ^.^

[Dantemustdie]

nah I'd just feel really good because I landed a great looking lady, how many dudes can say their girlfriend is a hottie. I wouldn't worry about cheating since I wouldn't be going out with a girl if I got a hint she was a cheater, no matter how hot she was. I think you may have the potential to make guys feel inadequate because you're actually really hot.

[Asker]

Plenty of guys that are better looking than me , haha. But thanks.

[WoIIie]

I feel insecure about it, sure. But I accept the circumstances for what they are and I won't try to dictate how she lives her life and be the thought police. A younger me would have blown this opportunity out of the gate but I've learned so much while listening to the right people. Live and let live so love will take care of the rest.

[Cantremember]

No. She is with me.

If she really feels like acting on her option then I invite her to do so. Don't want to be in a relationship with someone who constantly considers their options.

[thatoneguy17]

Not at all. I would only start to get insecure if she kept telling me about other guys then Id be like red flag and start to get insecure.

[Deepthinker25]

I wouldn't get insecure about it, but I would have a more watchful eye on whether or not other guys were trying to flirt with her or something

[toouglytobeloved]

girls are the beautiful ones and have more options in life so yes id defenatly be afraid she'll just leave, cheat etc (if I had a girlfriend)

[drummerdude25]

No... as long as she appreciated me and made me feel loved, why would I feel insecure?

[c7777]

Not necessarily. If she gets a lot of attention.. then ya which usually happens with hot girls. More attention also means more likely to cheat too..

[Cantremember]

More attention (outside influence) means a person is more likely to cheat (personality trait)?

I have to strongly disagree. You can't burn people for something they have no influence over.

[Anonymous]

Nah. Looks aren't everything. She may be hotter than me, but that doesn't mean she can find someone better than me.

[Dragan]

No, because I'm pretty sexy. I have no problem to find a girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

I don't know why I'd ever want to date a girl who ISN'T hotter than me.

[Lj236]

I wouldn't be insecure at all

[Amosa]

No, I would be delighted.