I trust him but still get worried and jealous?

[Anonymous]

I Love my boyfriend so much and I do trust him a lot but I still get jealous and worried when he talks to other girls or even looks at other girls.

I am not one of those girlfriends who tells him what to do and tells him who he can and can't be friends with.

Am I the only girl who gets jealous easily and should I tell him what I get jealous about?

[MissAmarie]

I think that if you really love him its only natural to get jealous or worried because inside you know how much you care for him and that make you vulnerable. When you see him look at another girl it makes you worried that he doesn't feel the same way you do and it makes you scared that he could hurt you. I would just tell him how how much you love him and then tell him how it makes you feel when you see him looking or talking to other girls. I feel like if he loves you he will understand and won't get mad or feel like your controlling him because your not, you're just telling him how is actions are making you feel. Now at the same time guys are going to notice pretty girls so that something you will have to get used to but if he is looking in a way that is disrespectful to you, like in an obnoxious way, than you have every right to be mad and maybe he has a problem with lust.

[Asker]

thank you

[rudy37lee]

As long as he doesn't give you any reason to doubt his faithfulness, you shouldn't worry too much. It's normal to get jealous, it just reaffirms that you really care about him. Guys are visual creatures, they're always going to check out women, you just get used to it. Now, he should be respectful about it. Like blatantly staring at some girl in front of you is just downright rude. If he doesn that then I'd wait for a good lookin dude to walk by and say damn he's sexy. See how he feels about that. Everything in good measure, you know?

[Asker]

Thank you, That really helped. He once called me his best friends name but she maybe could be bi sexual and he said its only because he talk about that sort of thing to her. Is that anything to worry about?

[rudy37lee]

He called you that during sex, or just in conversation.? I've accidentally called my fiance my ex's name before, and it was when we were fighting. I got angry and had a flashback in time lol. It was probably just an innocent mistake. If he is respectful to you, makes you feel loved, makes you a priority, makes you feel safe, you're fine.

[Asker]

It was just a conversation we where having.

[rudy37lee]

It was really probably an honest mistake. I wouldn't worry about it. As for the jealous thing. Showing him you are jealous probably isn't the best move, you can learn to deal with it internally or vent to a GF. In the end, people are going to do what they want to do, so ya just gotta trust him, unless he isn't worth your trust, time will tell.

[Asker]

He is worth my trust :)

[DanteSparda]

i think you shouldn't get jealous what he's doing that you mentioned because you can't control somebody by your will, you know.if you really like him then accept him for who he is,guys are usually like this

i yelled at my girlfriend because she also talks and hugs her guy friends in front of me that's why I usually get jealous(I still do care for her but we broke up and hate to see each others' faces now) but I should't had done that because I have no right to yell at her about that because it's her life and why should I bother what's she's doing or not ?!

nobody wants a jealous friend if you get my point . so I suggest you to learn self control and not to show anger or jealousy because it's a huge turn off

hope I helped ... :)

[Asker]

Thank you :) so to hear about your break up.

[Asker]

sorry*