So every morning when my boyfriend is at work, he wants to talk on the phone. He works alone in his a company car so he can wear headphones all day. We talk on the phone for hours especially when im at home because im part time and off most of the time. The conversations are good for an hour but the next few hours its quiet and he doesn't walk about nothing.
Some days I do have to work and he calls me when im at work. I answer it if its no one near or people around and I told him this. He told me that I'm really answering the phone when there is no dudes around. He's mentioned that he never hears anyone in the background when he is talking to me when im at work. I work in a customer service place, airpods or headphones at any time is a safety violation. So when I answer the phone i have him on speaker 30 minutes before the store opens or early in the morning when I'm alone and before the customers start coming in. When I tell him i have to go he gets upset and tells me to stay on the phone all day with him and then proceeds to keep talking. Some days im at work and he's at home and still doesn't want to end it. I already told him many times im not allowed to be on the phone while working.
I did tell him one time I was at home I had to go because i had to take a shower and he said no he needs me to be on the phone with him all day cause he didn’t trust me. He said he was just joking and let me take my shower and to call back when I was done. I was actually looking for an excuse to get offf the phone because he wasn’t saying anything and for whatever reason I didn’t call him back. I don't know why he needs to be on the phone but i suspect its to kill time.
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you know deep down that this guy is simply too immature and too immature to maintain a trusting long-term relationship. He obviously is living the Present in the Past of some sort of severely damaging relationship. The only other option is that he has done exactly what he accuses you of to other women.
Working and accusing you of being with other men is simply wrong and should not be tolerated. There are better guys out there that no how to behave respectfully...
He told you the reason and then claimed it was a joke... why are you a dude like that?
*with a dude
Girl, kick that child to the curb