Is jealousy unattractive?

[Anonymous]

For some reason I don't get jealous when my boyfriend talks about an ex-girlfriend but when he talks about his really good friend, who is a girl, from college I feel my blood boiling. He told me that they almost had a thing but it never happened for some reason. He knows I am a really jealous person because I tell him about my feelings. He loves me no matter what and he plans on marrying me. This girl has known him longer though and I can't help but feel like they'd be a better match. She doesn't live near us but he saw her this weekend at a work event. He helped her get a job at the company he works for and I began to think about the fact that she might move here and then he'd be wanting us to spend time with her. My vein pops just to think about it. I will not have it. He doesn't tell me anything about me being jealous, he just giggles and makes fun of me but I wished he would take me seriously. Sometimes I feel like crying but I know that would make me look really bad and maybe I'll run him off.

[Quadrophonic73]

My guess is that it's because you already have what the ex girlfriend had with him. But you don't necessarily have what he had with his friend. They were able to be close without a romantic context which many women seem to value - I've been with girls who were obsessed with the idea that it was just about sex when that was far from the truth. I don't know if that's you, but it gives you something to think about.

Basically if you "run him off" because of something that didn't even happen, you're an idiot. Get over it hun.