My boyfriend used the escort service!

[Anonymous]

I've just dated this guy for 4 months. I found out he used to contact escort girls for sex before dating me. I know that I'm supposed to let go off his past, but Can I still trust such person? What if he's still using it or will use it behind my back!

[toulouse]

ugg. look if you're already getting angry with him, leave him alone. if you decide to leave his past behind, you leave it behind. you don't leave it behind unless its x why or z. straighten yourself out first. then see what you want with him, really this is rediculous. escort service doesn't mean he cheated, its usually the absence of a relationship, that brings men to prostitutes.

if you know because he TOLD you, then he's being honest with u. if you know because you snooped, then you're not being honest with him. whos untrustworthy.

[Baby-Gurl]

You may be a little dishearten because you value sex highly or equate it with love but I would just take it as it is something he did in the past. I wouldn't judge him because we have all done things in the past which we are not proud of or wouldn't want people to know. But just let him know that if he wants to be with in a relationship then he has to stop contacting the escorts.

[HungryDemon]

Love is giving another the ability to break your heart but trusting them not to. TRUST him.

The past is the past. He may not be the same person he was before. Ask him about it; if he says it's nothing now then let it go, but if he's defensive and annoyed then be prepared. Sex is addictive, and sometimes one person isn't enough.

[Anonymous]

It depends on him , and why he was using them.

If he just loves prostitutes, then there's a chance he'd continue to use them even while dating you.

But honestly, very few men like prostitutes. They use them, but they don't actually like them. They just fulfill a need.

If your guy was using them to get laid, because he wasn't getting sex anywhere else, then it's unlikely he'd use them while dating you, so long as you were satisfying him sexually. No guy wants to pay for it, when he's getting it for free.

[cathars]

Depends on him. Tell him that if he wants to be with you, give up the escorts. (Disease ridden whores!) And then it's up to you to trust him. Hopefully he'll do the rightie by you. But escorts, like drugs, can be addictive. Sex with a different girls whenever you want? Sign me up! I just don't wanna lose the money. Easier just to go back to college :D

[pretty15]

dear, sex and love are 2 separate things.

there have been incidents where a guy truly loves a girl but yet slept with someone else.

and be open with him. find out if he does. do not go out of your way to satisfy him.

just take action at the right moment. and,... you will see changes in him if he looses interest in you or if he sleeps with someone else... you will see very noticable changes. relax for now.

[prophecy]

what's wrong with that?