My boyfriend does not let me have a social life.?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend does not let me have a instagram, Facebook , Twitter. When I downloaded apps like Meow chat for example he got upset. He does not want me talking to guys or hanging out with them. I do not hang out with my girl friends because he gets upset about it. I deleted my instagram and Facebook because he got angry every time I was on it. I am getting really tired and annoyed of having someone telling me what to do. He gets mad when guys I dont even know be nice to me and I am being nice back, its how I am I cannot change myself. But yet I do not want to upset him. I do not do my hair or makeup because he tells me why should I if I am by myself. I am doing it for myself I want to feel good about myself. I love him but I've had enough already. I dont know what to do

[MrOracle]

You are with a super-controlling guy, and if that's what you craved, that would be fine, but clearly that's not what you want. The problem is that he's very unlikely to change, so if you don't want to live the rest of your life this way, then the sooner you break up with him and find someone else, the better off you are.

You have a very basic, foundation-level incompatibility with this guy, and in 99.99% of cases, you are left with two choices: accept his wishes and become a shell of a person (i.e., not at all who you are or who you want to be), or end it and find someone you are compatible with.

I can tell you this as well: he's only going to get MORE controlling as time goes on, so the longer you wait, the harder it is going to be.

[parkway]

The problem is you love him more that you love yourself. You have no self respect so you have chosen someone stuck on stupid to be your life.

Get rid of him. In 100 different ways he is wrong and you don't see it.

He is afraid and his fear can possibly grow into violence. You are the fuel. You are a disaster waiting to happen.

[Alexias]

It sounds like to me that he is a controlling boyfriend. If someone truly loves you then they would not try and alienate you from your friends, family, hobbies etc. He seems to have trust issues stemmed from somewhere else that has nothing to do with you. I would say to end the relationship because it doesn't sound healthy, even if you what you feel for him is love. Love shouldn't be this controlling. I hope it works out for you!

[gingerrr]

I had an ex boyfriend like this before, except he would "allow" me to have social media; I would have to have it centered around him though. He was also really possessive and jealous of other guys showing attention. Basically, everything you are describing my ex did. Your boyfriend sounds like an insecure, low self-esteemed dbag. You deserve better.

[RasmusAiken]

Huge major red flags all over the place. Break it off. It will only get worse the longer it continues. After the breakup never ever again be alone with him. Guys like this can be ultra badnews. Be prepared to get a restraining order and a handgun with carry permit if/when he threatens to go all honeybadger on you.

[ManThatKnewTooMuch]

Careful girlie. You could end up with a guy like me that lets you do whatever you want. next thing you know you'll be wishing you had a jealous boyfriend back lol

[Anonymous]

Oh no. Break up with him, seriously.. he has some insecurities he needs to work out. . He's not the boss of you, by the way .. you can do your hair and make up if you want. ..make a Facebook if you want. shyt.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Dump him he sounds nuts