Questions: Relationships

Would you?

So, maybe it’s just me being unreasonable or it’s something deeper, but I just don’t feel as into a woman romantically if she’s been with a lot of partners as opposed to a few or no partners at all. Maybe it’s just me being selfish and wanting her all to myself or maybe there’s more to it than just that. I can't really understand how some men can romantically be with a woman who has been with a bunch of other men. I mean, I would probably understand more if you wanted to use her for just the night for a one night stand or hookup, but falling in love with her? Getting into a relationship? Having children with her? I can’t really wrap my head around that. I don’t feel like I can love a woman deep if she’s had an extensive past of being with a bunch of people, nor do I feel she can love me to the fullest extent as well. I don’t think it’s insecurity, at least not fully. I think it’s something in my ape brain telling me that a woman who has been with a lot of partners is a red flag. I think it’s something biological, but my current intellect is not up to par for explaining/articulating my feeling, biologically.

I just feel like the bonding between me and woman is different if all we have to go by is one another, as opposed to having a bunch of partners before the “one.” I think something happens in our neural circuitry that might make it harder to love someone to the core, to be loyal, and to respond to sex differently. At some point, we’ll just feel as if the person we’re currently we is just another body or number. Good news is, there’s apparently a lot of women who share the same sentiments as me so there’s a good chance of finding a woman to get into a relationship with that has the same standing as I.

I should probably edit this when I have more information or my new thoughts come into my head, but right now, this is just on the top of my head. Any biology experts, chime in.

Are women attracted to men who ignore them?

So i had the chance to know a girl and we became a best friends and we talk all day long and some times flirting each other, she is 19 and i am 18 and we Both agree that we need to continue our education, I started to like her and I told her that i like her and i can see us together in the future.. in the beginning shy said I know that will happen with us its a beautiful thing and who knows we may be together in the future, after her message I just got very excited and happy but I started to ask her few questions and she said I’m really confused and I look at you as a friend but in the same time i am confused i can’t say we will be together it’s just a possibility and I don’t know I need to work about my self and get ready for these kind of relationships but i can't promise u and we may just stay Best friends I just maybe can't change my view about u ur my best friend and what you think about delay this topic to the next years.
She told me that she want me to stay with her and she doesn’t want us to be unfriends.
I’m really confused right now dose she likes me and she is shy or what? She told me she is not ready for a relationship and I understand that, but what do i have to do? Keep hoping or just forget the idea?
I have a feeling that she is just not ready but at the same time she likes me.
What should i do now? And what does she means?

I feel like so many girls are helplessly romantic that they constantly fall in and out of love. They're so in love with the idea of being loved and falling in love that the convince themself it's love when it's still just lust and infatuation.

(Not based off any actual experiences)
Lets say I date a girl, it's going well, we end up in a relationship and it has been about a month together. She then identifies as a boy, would it make me gay or not?

Additionally, if you date a girl because she has boy like appearances such as short spiky hair and wears boyish clothes, would that make you gay?

NOT BASED OFF PERSONAL EVENTS, This is just a question of interest, it has never happened to me okay?

Included animes:
-Idolmaster
-Oregairu
-Shinsekai yori
-Himegoto
-Assassination classroom
-30 sai no hoken taiiku

P. s: I personally like traps in animes, they are enjoyable to guess who is a guy or girl
(Or sexually unidentified!) :)