Polls: Relationships

Enough to support the family. Basically food and shelter. No luxuries because the money has been cut drastically but the provider will always appreciate you and bring enough to live healthy.

In some relationships, partners don’t care what their partner wears. In other instances, some guys control what their girl wears and prohibiting her from wearing items like a crop top or choker necklace. Is this normal boundaries or a red flag?

This is about friends and family. This isn't about acquaintances. This is about someone who you were fond of and/or someone who was fond of you.

Please talk about who betrayed or who you betrayed and how it went down including any aftermath.

He said he noticed a lot of people looking at him but they were more attractive than me.

He came home to me (it was my birthday) the following day. He slept with me took me out for dinner and told me how much he loved me many times.

Today I asked when I’d see him next he said we aren’t together. Made a new Instagram account and followed people he had previous history with that I told him I was uncomfortable about and someone he tried to cheat with. He hasn’t done this in years. I was away at the weekend with my friend and he claimed his dick was super clean now feels weird and that I must have cheated. He said I dunno if I believe you didn’t cheat. I didn’t cheat. I didn’t even talk to a single guy. I had offers but I didn’t take any and texted him
Until his phone died about how much I loved and missed him.

We had a falling out because he turned his phone off when he was out and he never does this so I asked and said holy shit you’re cheating Avis how could you do this to me etc. and he fell out with me said he was done cos I said that. Then agreed to talk agisn.

We’d be rocky because I was asking often because he seemed weird are you cheating on me? Do you have someone else? Do you hide our relationship? Etc maybe once a day some days others I wouldn’t ask at all.

Did he look at me and think I can do well better than her

Or is it revenge he knew this would hurt me in the worst way possible and now he’s trying to do that. He does think I cheated so now wants revenge or he got his ego filled and now thinks he can get whoever.

He also told me I get in the way of his goals and it isn’t against me it’s anyone he doesn’t want a relationship he wants to focus on his hobby he wants to make a full time job. He promised me he had no one else. And doesn’t want anyone. He’s not interested in anyone but made this new account and added them and didn’t add me.

All this when he said he loved me the night before

He does not like to plan for the future. This is how he thinks in everything, not just in a love relationship. He says we cannot know the future. Yes that is right. Nobody knows the future. If a man shows his love to the one he loves, cares, but doesn't plan for the future, does it mean he's not thinking of a future with you?

My mom was suggesting for me and my boyfriend of 1.3 years to get engaged that way it’s a more “sure” thing because my uncle was telling my mom that he doesn’t want to meet my boyfriend unless he sees that we’re engaged

my boyfriend and I have been in a committed relationship for over a year now and I’ve met his entire family and they welcomed me with open arms…nobody on his end said that we had to be “engaged” in order to meet me

Picture it, you're doing whatever while your partner is doing whatever. Your kid comes to you and is upset that they failed again at a thing. You tell them that failing is what makes the challenge fun. You explain to them that you failed a lot to get where you are and once you did, you finally felt good about it. So they ask you the question above. You don't know what to say, knowing having a challenge is fun but also tough. So... is it worth for the thing to not be too easy?

Pls give a reason c:

I am unsure of this myself.

I guess it really depends on the matter like if it's a relationship thing, for example:
A woman wents out with her friendly male coworker to have lunch together, she later on gets asked about her day by her boyfriend, she says what food she had for lunch but DOES NOT mention going with her male coworker to avoid a possible fiasco.

• Is it lying in this case? It is withholding an information after all.
• If she'd tell she went with a FEMALE friend to avoid problems, then that IS lying.

Neither is good though, I try to be honest as much as I can with my partner (when I have one).
Men aren't always willing to listen though, and they start making assumptions even when you are honest like when you tell them about the lunch with a coworker. Maybe it's an insecurity thing? It's def. common!