Polls: Relationships

In every other sense of the term, I am a solitary person.

I exclusively pursue work that allows me a high degree of autonomy, I don't have many friends and I like it that way, if I'm ever in a place with a large amount of people in it, it's always for a specific reason that doesn't involve those people (even if it's as simple as "there's a lake and the view is nice"), and my alone time is extremely important to me.

But my girlfriend and I always need to at least be in contact with each other. We'll both readily admit that we're needy as fuck.

I have a very hard time imagining myself living like a complete hermit because then I start thinking "what about baby?"

A hermit's life WITH her and just her.. I can imagine pretty easily. We fantasize about it to each other often.

Real idyllic cottagecore shit.

But just by myself? What about baby?

I would say so. One day I’m gonna need a girl to share my life with, marry and have babies with.
So yes I would say I need a girl.

I work with this girl that is really pretty and we are part of the same team so we talk all day together but it’s entirely work related. We have lunch together. We always sit next to each other in meetings and I’m starting to catch feelings for her but I don’t act on them because I have a girlfriend but those feelings for her are there. I get butterflies and everything.

Would you go back to your ex-gf if she was still super hot while your current girlfriend was letting herself go and sort of not trying to keep herself sexually attractive in your eyes?

To make this even more fun, let's suppose that your ex for the most part good to you for most of the relationship and you still have fond memories of your time together.

Your ex-gf for this hypothetical

Given that women actively compete with men for high paying jobs and less men are graduating college, do you think we will see more women ending up in a polygamous relationship with a wealthy man to attain this goal? Also if this does come to pass, how do you think children will develop in the household with half siblings and multiple females being their maternal figure.

Obsessive Partner: This is the man or woman who is so crazy in the head for you, they literally will make you, your family, and family completely paranoid. This person might go through your stuff without your permission, they might spy on you especially if you want some alone time or don't think about talking to a family member or a friend of the opposite sex because the stalker girl or guy you are dating will become so creepy desperate enough to please you they not only will willing to put their own health or safety on the line but they might keep you lock up in the house because in their eyes anyone can steal you from them, hell they might even play some horror creepy music. Basically with this man or woman your life might essentially get involved with them and only them because you are the only person in their mind 24/7, good luck having precious me time because with this husband or wife you definitely need it

Toxic Partner: Are you the sort of person who hate drama, violence and restrictions if yes than trust me run the fuck away from the toxic wife and toxic husband. This is the person who will filled your life with so much choas and petty drama, your partner might try to control your body, living arrangements and essentially your entire life. If you men and women out there think the obsession partner is the jealous, trust me at least the obsessive partner might not constantly snoop through your phone if they instantly suspect you are cheating on them or your toxic lover might always interrogate you if you want to leave out of the house. And you toxic lover might physically, emotionally or mentally abused you too so there that.

Now men and women out of these two picks which one would make you more afraid to be with?

Do people change? Imagine you are in love and you get a message from the abused person, “please run as far away as you can. They used to hit me.”

Living Together: The two of you can split the cost of rent or mortgage and it is easier to hang out with each other but you guys need to compromise and neither can't have most of the space around the house. Oh by the way you two can also split chores unlike living separately.

Living Separately: While this is more expensive and might be trickier to see each other some days unless you guys live in the same neighborhood or apartment complex of course. But neither of you don't have to compromise on certain rooms because since you have your own space and your girl or guy also has their own space you guys can decorate and have literally everything y'all want in your own places.