Polls: Relationships

One of my friends got back part of her money ($3000 out of $7000) after suing her ex boyfriend. Usually players say and do anything to get in our pants. He got both lust and money from her.

My friend was actually in a relationship for 3 years. He wasn't just into sex but also money. Are your surprised certain men stay to scam us with money too?

What happened was his friend came in town and they went out. My boyfriend told half a day off work and had been hanging out with them all day. This is fine and I don’t really care until he decides to come home at 12:30am on a Weekday. I got work tomorrow and so does he at 9am. He told me he left at 11:30pm but he decided to cheap out on Uber and took the bus. It took him an hour to get hime versus 20 mins by Uber.

When he came back, he had to eat and shower etc. I wasn’t able to go to bed until 2am. I honestly find it a bit unacceptable and he had history of being inconsiderate.

Is this not okay? And that he should of left earlier if he planned to take the bus instead of taking an Uber. But instead, he decided to cheap out and stay out as he wanted.

If you did stop missing him, was that near the end of your relationship, or during a rough patch?

Please read this

I've NEVER forgotten a birthday or holiday before, I always make him cakes and handmade birthday cards and buy him gifts. I love holidays like that and he knows it.

I was anticipating his birthday all of June and then July crept up so fast... We've been arguing a lot lately and I can't help but to feel like that's really why he's so upset, bc this seems really out of character.

He said "you forgetting my birthday really shows your character" and I when I apologized profusely all he said was "whatever"

I feel terrible for forgetting but he's making me feel like the shittiest person ever.

This isn't like me to forget, I don't know where my mind has been.

I’m not really thinking if it from the Angie they are fakers. Let’s assume for arguments sake, they believe they are really into you. So for me it’s just too arbitrary. I don't know why you like me so I would have no idea what it is you believe I am and I have no way of knowing if there’s anything at all substantial between us. Leaving out the sign if impulsivity of that person as well, my concern I think Stems from the ambiguity of the situation. I’m uncomfortable when I have no way of assessing an event I’m involved in including relations. Anyone else?

Remember I’m not asking g about “ their potential pathology” just in how it might make you personally feel uneasy in your own life.

Some people just attach quick and have a solid idea if who they are and just bc they like eoneobe readily it doesn’t mean they are bonkers plus it’s hypothetical it’d just be conjecture but what we all do know is how we personally feel about how stuff affects us—-so I’m not really asking about their supposed side of the equation but yours 😊