Will you please pray for me a wife without a romantic past?

[MissingAWoman]

I know God knows what I am seeking. I don't know if he will ever bring that.

I have been single all my life pretty much. I am 28 and never had a real girlfriend. I seek a woman where we can be each other's first real relationship. I seek a woman who has never had her first love.

I seek a girl like Rachel was. She never even had a male friend before she met me. She sadly rejected me upon meeting the first time in person, and she went on to marry another guy who got to be her first everything.

I wonder if I am going to have to settle for less than that. I don't want to.

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I am going to try to pray more about it.

[Anonymous]

I will pray for you but you also need to take action. The first step you need to do is move on from that girl Rachel. After your heart and mind is empty, only then will you have space for another girl.

[MissingAWoman]

I don't want her back by any means. Everything is ruined. I was just wanting a girl like she WAS when we first met.

[Opinion Owner]

If you’re still bringing her up that means that you’re still holding on to her bc you’re looking for basically a Rachel 2.0.

Flush out all of that, open up your heart and mind, then God will open up the way and lead you to your dream girl

[MissingAWoman]

I have wanted a woman without a romantic past even before I met Rachel. I just thought she was godsent at the time when she came along. Sadly, that wasn't the case. Even if I move on, I still want a woman without a romantic past.

[Opinion Owner]

That’s okay, then just focus on attracting a new women without a romantic past (don’t even think about Rachel anymore)

[MissingAWoman]

I will try, although it is easier said than done. The thought of her new husband being her first everything and they are making love every night, it hurts so bad.

[Opinion Owner]

Start thinking positively instead, you’re gonna be someone else’s (not Rachel bc she no longer meets your criteria) first everything and making love to her every night

[Apple1996]

I'll pray for you to be less shallow about dating. Nothing wrong with a woman who has a romantic past.

[MissingAWoman]

Well you got to meet your husband when you both were young. I can never say that.

[Apple1996]

I had a past tho lol and if you wanted that then you should have met someone while you were young

[MissingAWoman]

I have always struggled to get a woman, period. It just gets worse.

[Wade12345]

If I knew I wouldn't tell you, i'd be dating her myself. lol at you.

[Anonymous]

Just being real, God has better men lined up for the kind of women you are chasing.

[MissingAWoman]

Better men? How?

[Opinion Owner]

Masculine, mentally sound, not whiney, happy, not continually complaining about their life in the internet.

[Whatfeeshhell]

I prayed for you. Arr you a saved Christian too?

[MissingAWoman]

Yes I am

[Whatfeeshhell]

Awesome! Will you please pray for me too? I am desperate for a husband for years now.

[MissingAWoman]

Yes I will. I am desperate for a wife. I'll pray for you.

[MissingAWoman]

I prayed for you just now

[Whatfeeshhell]

I appreciate you and sorry to hear that you are the same position as me. It sucks but we will get through it