Polls: Relationships

In modeling there are plus sized models and women always tell other overweight women that they are beautiful etc.

I think that's evil for a few reasons. First of all the health of the woman will keep getting worse and it will shorten her lifespan and give her health issues as well as possible low self esteem, physical pain, and it will be harder to find intimacy etc. And believing something false can cause more mental damage long term which can lead to more suffering.

I will use myself as an example. I used to be very overweight in my teenage years. Then I suffered from finding a woman to date or be intimate with. After several years I realized 99% of women don't find fat men attractive (even fat women don't want fat men). That's just reality. I'm not saying that's my fault and neither is it the fault of those women obviously. But because of the false expectations of "fat acceptance" I thought being fat is ok.

After a couple of years of gym and caloric restrictions etc. I was treated like a completely different person. I was respected and admired and both men and women would be friendly and accepting. I later got with a girl that I found attractive without putting almost any effort. Sadly around that time I started losing most of my hair and now I'm invisible to women again. (brutal I Know).

Anyway I think we shouldn't make people feel bad about themselves but I also don't think we should lie to people and make them delusional. We should admit that there is a problem somewhere and encourage people to be healthy and live a better life rather than "empower" them to ruin their lives and future opportunities.

If someone's entire existence and reason for living was to serve ONE PERSON and one person alone (not any religious deities or higher powers; just one human being), how would you feel about that? Would you have a positive reaction to that or a negative reaction to that? Or do you just not care? Please explain your reasoning.

Another user asked a question about whether it was ever okay to slap a boyfriend or girlfriend

Is it okay to slap your boyfriend when mad or is that considered domestic violence?

so I started wondering about how often that happens. Have you ever done it? If you did, why?

Can girls really fall in love?

There is this girl I have been talking to every day for 3 weeks now. She lives thousands of miles from me. She is about to turn 15 next month.

Anyways, there has been a lot of red flags. I informed her that there will be no sexual activity between us until she is older. I made that clear.

Anyways, she informed me yesterday that her mom is taking a business trip to where I live and she is accompanying her mom and wants to see me while I am here. I have a gut instinct something is not right.

I have talked to her on the phone almost daily, but she claims she is not able to video chat with me and she has no social media. I looked up the numbers she has texted and called me on, and discovered they are burner numbers.

I am crushed. She is the only girl that has shown interest in me like this for a while. I am still hurting over this other girl that is about to marry some other guy in April.

This girl has at least kept me sane and kept me from feeling depressed over the other girl.

I am so crushed beyond words right now.

I try to please my girlfriend when we are going somewhere other than work. I ask for her approval on what I select because it's probably more important to her than it is to me, and especially if we are going to meet some of her friends for lunch or dinner. But I have had partners who didn't show me that same consideration; they just wore whatever they wanted to wear. . . and one of them had a very limited sense of fashion!

How do you handle getting dressed for an event for your partner's work, family , or friends? Please them or please yourself?