Polls: Relationships

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My boyfriend for 9 months was romantic at first, he listens attentively, give presents, calls every day. But he changed after few months. He rarely calls and I am the one calling him first. He doesn't listen when I speak. But he kept talking about the girl he met online who he tried to comfort. One day, we had a big fight. He was sick and did covid test. I asked him how was the result but he replied, "You're narcissist selfish, you never check the negative result I sent." I got annoyed because I never received one. I screen capture our conversations and I said. "If you think low about me, just go away! After that, he blocked me everywhere.. I tried to reconcile with him after a week but he only blamed me for everything and said I cannot take his joke. And, he still blocked me after we are done talking. Today, he knows I was infected by covid and I am so sick but he doesn't seem to care.

Just want to see if there are still hard working guys out there.

It’s really not that hard to not cheat. I would 100% never cheat on my boyfriend.

How common are house wife's/husband's?

So I still work, I do 30h+ a week and on top of that I cook, clean and do the washing + basically all the house work.

My boyfriend also works and does 40h a week and does any manual labor if/when it needs doing in the house (for example, building our wardrobe) and I help with that if I can.

I was just wondering how common people think this is? I've been told I "do too much" but I enjoy keeping up the house and serving my boyfriend.

27F, I just feel like I had it harder than others. I haven’t been sexually or physically abused but I had my share of emotional abuse. I was bullied as a kid up to in HS, I was raised by my grandmother who is very petty/fits the “mean girl” description in the sense that she has a big mouth, gossiped about her kids/grandkids with her other kids/grandkids and is a bit of a narcissist. I never really had friends growing up and to go this far in life still without those close friendships and never had a long term relationship under my belt is just so odd. I know nothing is wrong with me but this trauma from my mother’s vindictive side of the family, bullying and just encountering my share of drama with people I’ve come across is unjust considering I’m a very peaceful person. I’m very unsociable and usually now expect people to make the first move to contact me, with current “friends”, family and if a guy actually wants to make a move (which never happens). I feel like people always say things about how everyone goes through a difficult time and we all have a cross to bear. But honestly, I have to disagree. It’s all about the cards your dealt with and life is a series of good and bad luck, some situations are in your control and others not so much. I didn’t ask to be born into my family, I would have been a different person maybe for the better if I wasn’t raised by my grandmother. I wouldn’t have had to go with my grandmother if my mom didn’t divorce my dad.

TL; DR; Does anyone get envious and also under the impression that most people just have life a lot easier and shit is just unfair?