Polls: Relationships

His b-day is this Sunday. I found out but rather than doing a direct confrontation and dumping him now, I want to wait till his b-day. He doesn't know I know.

I'm still dumping him. I ain't staying with no cheater.

A lot of people will work out or change their hair or whatever to be more attractive in general, but that’s not what I mean.

If someone you were attracted to told you in conversation that they prefer guys/girls who look like this, or have this color hair, or have a beard instead of clean shaven, would you change your look for them? Keep in mind that in this situation, you’re not dating yet. You’re changing to make your crush more attracted to you.

Just say you and your girlfriend are going to movie or whatever
And she wears something provocative (showing full legs, showing cleavage, etc)
For example, like the one in the pictures
Would you mind?
Would you tell her to change her outfit?
Or you wouldn't care?

First of all, I just wanted to tell you guys that I still have trust issues from my previous relationship
My ex boyfriend cheated on me so now I can't fully trust ANY guy
Me and my current boyfriend been together for almost 1.5 years
I do trust him in a way but not 100%
Although he has never cheated on me
He's a really attractive and fit guy
He's kind of like a fitness model on instagram
He has many followers on instagram and facebook
There are some girls that comment stuff on his instagram saying "youre so hot" , "wow gorgeous" , etc etc
He just likes their comments and doesn't reply
We do take pictures together and he does put our pictures on his facebook and instagram
So anyway, few days ago, I kept nagging him how he wants other girls and he's not happy with me and all that stuff
He got really annoyed and saying "If i wasn't happy with you, i wouldn't be with you"
Everyday/night he calls me and he ask how I am, what I am upto, what he's upto, etc
And last night, we were on the phone and he was playing his game
And then he said "Im gonna tag u on something"
Then I checked my facebook, and he uploaded a video of him playing his game and then he posted it on his facebook and his caption on it was:
"My girlfriend thinks im chatting to other girls.. but this is what Im actually doing.. lol" and then tagged me.
All his facebook friends can see the post
Would he do this if he was cheating on me?
Would a guy act differently if he was cheating on his partner and/or want other girls?

If your SO was cuddling with someone else for more then 30 minutes, would you call it cheating? There was no kissing involved and cloths were on, so basically just touching.

Let's say your parents for whatever reason literally hated your partner. Then suddenly (after so much struggle and frequent arguments) they say ''If you're happy and he/she makes you happy then that's all that matters, I'll love him/her'', is that really a lie? My guess is they will never truly like (much less love) that person and are just forced to being cordial for their child's sake, esp if that person will give them grandkids. lol

It happened to my best friend (a guy). Supposedly his parents and his now wife have been on good terms for 4 years now. They claimed to now adore the girl but I doubt it. Somewhere within them, there must be that lingering overall dislike. They suddenly changed their minds as soon as he proposed to her; the following year she gave birth to twin girls. lol

If so, how did it end?

Would you ever seriously date someone if they told you that in the past, they were sent to a psychiatric ward to get help for a mental illness (e. g. schizophrenia) they were suffering from.

So say an friends with benefits happens for a few months, they talk a lot and go on dates too, sex chemistry is awesome, communication is awesome. But the "what is this going on between us" talk hasn't yet happened.

The girl has feelings but doesn't want to ruin their relationship. So she choose to wait for the guy to start "the talk".

But in the mean time, are there signs that the girl can see from the guy? How to know if he only sees her as an friends with benefits or he sees her as more?

And, how long does it take for a guy to be sure to move from friends with benefits to a real relationship?