myTakes: Relationships
Embracing the Freedom. The Joys of Being Single Today
Being single these days offers a refreshing sense of freedom. A person has the opportunity to focus on their personal growth, pursuing goals, hobbies, and passions without the compromises that come with being in a...
Stuck in the Lie: The Hidden Trap of Denial in Love
Denial in love is a powerful force that can keep people locked in relationships that aren't serving them, even when they know, deep down, that things aren't right. It's a way of protecting yourself from the pain of facing...
Liar, liar, pants on fire...
A lying partner can be one of the most painful and disheartening experiences in a relationship. It’s not just the lies themselves that hurt; it’s the deep sense of betrayal that follows. When someone you trust and love...
You cheated on me...
"I can’t stop crying as I write this, because the weight of it all is suffocating. I trusted you with everything, with my heart, my love, my life—and you just… broke it. How could you do this to me? I don’t even know...
Robert's Take On Love
Love is a complicated emotion that requires cooperation from both individuals. If you are not willing to have both an emotional and physical connection with your partner, I recommend steering clear of love all together...
11 facts about Valentine's you probably didn't know
#1 The Fist Valentine (1415) The first recorded Valentine was written by Charles, Duke of Orleans while imprisoned in the Tower of London after the Battle of Agincourt. #2 Valentine's Days isn't just for lovers While...
The Desire to Be Understood vs. The Need to Understand
We all want to be understood, to feel heard and validated. But just as important is the need to understand others. When we focus too much on expressing our own feelings, we miss the chance to truly connect with those...
Why Timing Matters More Than Love in Relationships
When it comes to relationships, we’re often told that love conquers all. But what if the real secret to a successful relationship isn’t just love, but timing? I’ve learned that even the strongest bonds can fall apart when...
How to Keep Love Alive in a Long-Distance Relationship
Long-distance relationships are tough. You’re essentially signing up for a life of “I miss you” texts, countdown apps, and virtual hugs that don’t have the same effect. But does that mean it’s impossible? No. With a...
Why Both Genders Should Split The Bill On Dates
I’m probably going to get a lot of hate from women, but this needs to be discussed. I grew up being told that when dating and being married the man must pay and take care of the woman. My Parents generation men...
Doesn't agreeing to an exclusive or monogamous relationship necessarily mean you are giving up the chance to have other experiences?
When I began college, I wanted to be a music major. My choices were performance/piano or conducting. My parents were against those choices, so I was "steered" into a safer direction and eventually became a lawyer. I love...
Is Taking a Break in a Relationship Healthy or Harmful?
Why Do Couples Take a Break? Taking a break is not about giving up, but about stepping away for a moment to reflect. Couples often take a break to figure out what’s wrong, focus on personal growth, or simply to calm down...
A man that got burned by a relationship is like an abused dog.
As the title says, a dog who got abused is the same as a man that got burned by a relationship. Both will very likely take a long time to trust again or not ever trust again in their life, especially not those who remind...
The Importance of Similar Views In a Relationship
Some of you that know me and have read my opinions have probably seen me on multiple occasions emphasize the importance of having similar views in a relationship as well as other important similarities. But today I'm...
Have You Ever Heard of Othello Syndrome?
What is Othello Syndrome? The name comes from Shakespeare’s play Othello , in which the main character is led to believe that his wife is unfaithful, leading to tragedy. In real life, Othello Syndrome can wreak havoc on...
Women, here are red flags in a man from a mans point of view
Trigger Warning: If you've had a bad relationship before that was so bad it caused PTSD than perhaps you shouldn't read this and should just turn around now. I give you permission to pretend you read it and leave a...
Changing for Your Partner is Not as Bad as People Claim: The Myths and the Reality
We've all heard those familiar phrases, “Never change for anyone” or “If someone wants you to change for them, they don’t really love you.” They’re the kind of advice tossed around like it’s gospel truth. But let’s take a...
Yes, girls, all men cheat! Get over it
You won't find a man, who does not have or do *any* of the following: watch p o r n looks at other girls talks to other girls compliments other girls finds other girls pretty has dreams involving girls has no obligation...
How do you view long-distance relationships
Long-distance relationships are often seen as challenging because of the physical separation, but they can also deepen emotional connection if both partners are committed. Some people view them positively, believing they...
Zodiacs, Rise Again (Redux) 🙌
I’ve written something similar before and yes I’ll be writing something similar again. It’s very therapeutic when I express myself in writing about my experiences. So allow me to relax, see if you relate, and let’s all...
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