I had a dream one time, a very inconsiderate guy was walking around with a woman who looked like me, except she was far more beautiful than me, far more intelligent and far richer. I asked the very inconsiderate guy if he had been walking around with somebody who looked like a glamorized version of me and he said, no but when you concern yourself with my interests, I will concern myself with yours.
The bible repeats this message, that God honours those who serve Him, that he glorifies the man serves and seeks Him. That the modest are honoured and the braggart is humiliated. The one who respects his neighbour is placed in a high position and the one who despises his neighbour is put in a low position. The one who cares for others will have everything he needs, the one who neglects his responsibilities will end up destitute and in poverty.
When you serve good purposes by sincerely seeking what is best for those around you, than God will serve your purpose by sincerely seeking what is best for you.
You acquire your happiness not by pursuing your dream, but by pursuing God’s plan. Not by chasing your desire, but by chasing God’s desire.
This is why it is so important that you always consider what benefits others, so that God will also consider what benefits you.