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The spectrum for abuse and safety

The spectrum for abuse and safety

King Solomon said if you are faithful and submissive to God, God will rescue you from abuse partnerships and relationships but if you are full of pride and ego, you will be more likely to get in relationships with abusers, like my dad and cousin are both egotistic people and both married abusive partners, but I find there is one trait that greatly multiplies your chance of attracting abusers, that is vanity and the endless need for attention from others. I have never met a woman that needed validation from men that was in a relationship with a loving and respectful and attractive guy.

To attract a good guy, you have to be modest, non judgmental and you have to honour others and be discrete and honest and private, cause abusers target woman who are desperate for attention and look to people for validation, a normal guy will not want to babysit you by praising you 80 times a day, if you need constant attention, you will attract an abuser who had no sense of normalcy or boundaries and thinks that a beautiful woman is an idol and not a person or companion, and he will treat you like worthless trash when you break his unattainable and unrealistic standard.

The spectrum for abuse and safety
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