Why has God not granted my request?

Years ago a guy told me God would give me my own family if I sought God’s kingdom. I never found out what that meant, but I did light volunteer work, donated to churches, prayed and worshiped, honoured God in my friendships, and went to university and than to my old job, and God never gave me a husband. I dreamed one time about marrying a guy with a very common name but I only have one friend with that name and he is a liar and I am not attracted to him.
Why has God not granted my request?
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