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Do you believe we find our purpose, or do we create it?

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  • OneViewpoint
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    Guru Age: 59 , mho 46%
    10 mo

    We choose from the options available to us that we are capable of recognizing based intelligence, geography, social and economic status, random luck, and timing.

    Most choose something that barely resembles a purpose. Low risk, low effort, and low benefit to anyone. Including themselves. They are choosing to simply survive for as long as possible with as little effort as possible and are satisfied with modest enjoyment of their lives.

    The people who take on high risk, high effort, high potential benefit endeavors are few. Failure is always an option in those cases. But it's the effort they thrive on, not the winning. They can't just sit there watching the hands on a clock go round and the calendar go by for a lifetime.

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    • Emmytexrex
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      10 mo

      Wow that's good

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  • dragoblack
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    Guru Age: 34
    10 mo

    It's what we choose to be our purpose. Nature doesn't give too much of a fuck what humans do besides when humans be destructive and parasitic.
    To simplify "don't be an asshole, don't take part in destroying the planet, and enjoy what you enjoy"

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    • strateguy632
      strateguy632
      10 mo

      But how do you @dragoblack know if your list is the purpose or not? Community rules on fscebook?

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    • dragoblack
      dragoblack
      10 mo

      Wut? Dude, our purpose is to be part of the life cycle of nature. We are all corpse soil nutrients waiting to happen.

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  • Genie23 m
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    Master Age: 34 , mho 53%
    10 mo

    I was actually going to post a question a question about "people finding their purpose in life" few days ago but I changed my mind. I'm glad you asked the question though. I believe life's journey and we don't know where our journey is going to take us. We don't know what's our purpose in life, we eventually find it. Some people figure out much sooner in life while others like me take a while to find our purpose.

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    • Emmytexrex
      Emmytexrex
      10 mo

      If you were going to post same question few days ago that means our minds are linked lol but yh so you think people find it and not create it by their selves ok

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    • Genie23 m
      Genie23
      10 mo

      It wasn't exactly the same but yeah, it was related to your question. I was going to ask "What's your purpose in life? Have you found it yet?"

      Our minds are linked it's something I thought we already knew, T-Rex 🤣 And yes, I do think we find it. How about you? What do you think?

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    • Emmytexrex
      Emmytexrex
      10 mo

      For me, I think purpose is part discovery, part creation. Sometimes life reveals it in unexpected ways, but other times, we shape it through the choices we make and the values we stand on.

      And yeah… maybe our minds are more in sync than I thought, Little Detective 😅

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    • Genie23 m
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      10 mo

      I kept bunch of tabs opened and forgot to close them so I didn't get notifications. It's one of my bad habits which is funny considering how organised and clean my home is...😩

      Interesting perspective, to be honest. I'd give you a like but then I realised I already liked your question 😂

      Thank you for MHO!

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  • Caroline91
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    Yoda Age: 34 , mho 48%
    10 mo

    What an interesting question. For me it has been a process of discovery for an overarching purpose with many little "purposes" both discovered and created along the way.

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    • Emmytexrex
      Emmytexrex
      10 mo

      Ok that's good

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  • FreyaRed
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    Master Age: 25 , mho 44%
    10 mo
    467 opinions shared on Religion & Spirituality topic.

    In biological terms existence of one individual is irrelevant. I'm pretty sure in cosmic dimension (gods operate if they exist) it's irrelevant es well.
    Life span is short and human options are limited, we imagine a lot but in reality we choose always an option that demands less energy. I'm sure we don't create anything with exception of imaginations.

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  • Vevv123
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    We create it because in some way or another you have to take initiative and be proactive. Finding it insinuates that something is waiting for you and all that’s required is to search. In reality, we can’t just search, we need to put in effort and our purpose is shaped through our choices and experiences.

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    • Vevv123
      Vevv123
      10 mo

      A guitarist will never find out they’re a guitarist if they never pick up an instrument and practice.

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  • Maybe_Maybe_not m
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    Guru Age: 45 , mho 47%
    10 mo

    My answer, about my purpose in life, is explained down below, right side of the picture 👇🏼

    Do you believe we find our purpose, or do we create it?
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    • Maybe_Maybe_not m
      Maybe_Maybe_not
      10 mo

      Also, I would distrust anyone coming off with the idea they created their own purpose. As it would seem much too oblivious of every events and people we're influenced by in the course of life.

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  • CupcakeTheDestroyer
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    10 mo

    It can easily be both. I think it depends on if you believe in the idea of destiny or free will. Free will says you create your purpose, destiny says your purpose already exists and it just needs you to discover it.

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  • strateguy632
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    Master Age: 50 , mho 34%
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    A purpose must be found because if i just create my own "purpose" is to "try to get many points in video games" it is not my personal ability because anyone can play.

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  • genericname85
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    Master Age: 40
    10 mo
    3.4K opinions shared on Religion & Spirituality topic.

    "purpose" is a human concept that helps understanding the world and the utility of things that help you to survive. purpose isn't naturally in the world. it's a mental crutch we use. so really it doesn't exist by itself. everyone has to make up or learn their own purpose as they got to make up or learn the purpose for everything.

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  • jshm2
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    10 mo
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    You cannot "create" a purpose, you find it.

    You can create the intent or product for a purpose, but not the purpose itself.

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  • beenherebefore
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    Yoda Age: 36
    10 mo

    It can be a little bit of both. I found my purpose while pursuing a goal.

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  • SotiCoto
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    Yoda Age: 42
    10 mo

    Purpose is a spook. There is only causality. Existence is not prescriptive.

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  • AngryCarl2
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    Yoda Age: 66
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    We create our own purpose because without one life is next to impossible. But we haven't evolved far past our ancestors whose only purpose was to get through the day without starving or being eaten by a sabre-tooth tiger.

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  • ProbablyClueless
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    I believe we create our purpose. I'm also a bit on the extreme end of personal agency though.

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  • exitseven
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    1K opinions shared on Religion & Spirituality topic.

    We find it if we are lucky. Many people never do.

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    • Emmytexrex
      Emmytexrex
      10 mo

      Yh that's the saddest part many people never do

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  • WhitneySnow
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    Master Age: 20
    10 mo

    Could be either

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  • Slave_submissive
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    8 mo

    There is a divine purpose. And some of them find it

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  • samanthapraznovsky
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    10 mo

    How are you doing today, Hope all is well and Okay with you?

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  • NathanDavis m
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    10 mo
    768 opinions shared on Religion & Spirituality topic.

    depends...

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    • Emmytexrex
      Emmytexrex
      10 mo

      Depends on what

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    • NathanDavis m
      NathanDavis
      10 mo

      it can be both, or neither... lol

      it will be different for everyone, how do you define purpose... is there just one purpose? or a few...

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    • Emmytexrex
      Emmytexrex
      10 mo

      Yh lol its different for everyone but there is one of our purposes that is going to all stands out right

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  • Babygirl_S
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    Guru Age: 29
    10 mo

    We find it as we get older

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  • queenofcardio
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    Guru Age: 32 , mho 33%
    10 mo

    I think we can create and find it. Depends

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  • Yoursweetgirl
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    Xper 6 Age: 30
    10 mo

    Def create

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    • Emmytexrex
      Emmytexrex
      10 mo

      Definitely create why do you think so your answer is intriguing so why do you think so

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  • Massageman
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    Master Age: 74
    10 mo
    534 opinions shared on Religion & Spirituality topic.

    Both are parts of our lives.

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  • thegreenyogi
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    Guru Age: 35
    10 mo

    A bit of both.

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  • AndrésC64
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    Yoda Age: 62
    10 mo
    482 opinions shared on Religion & Spirituality topic.

    We have to create our own purpose.

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  • 12karen
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    Yoda Age: 22
    10 mo

    Both I'd say...

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  • Anonymous
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    It can be both.

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