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I know every couple’s dynamic is different & what may seem dysfunctional or not the usual for some might actually work for others. My mom and her boyfriend have been together since I was 8 (over 20 years) and almost the whole time they’ve been together, they get in verbal fights where they’re cursing each other out a lot/insulting etc. They bounce back quickly enough tho, another thing I’ll add is my mom is the breadwinner. This has always been the case, she makes the money & he takes care of everything else. He is very useful when it comes to handy things, has a ged but has a criminal record (he can’t work bc if the govt. tracks him then he’ll get caught for unpaid child support). She nitpicks at him a lot & he reacts, plus I know he can say ignorant crap that gets her heated too. It goes both ways, I know people looking in think they might sound miserable or that setup is messy but I do genuinely believe they actually love each other. Is this something that I’d want for myself? Absolutely not but I guess never say never? Is it normal for couples to get that heated with each other often? The thing is: my mom always comes across as positive and seems content. I can’t tell if it’s for the sake of her kids or maybe she’s really in a good place with this guy

So I heard a lot that Russian make fun of American for going to the store in pajamas.

I never actually went to the store in pajamas before but as I get older if I find comfortable pajamas that don’t look too “pajama’ish” , I wouldn’t change just to to go grab some milk and eggs etc.

so I’ll be going to Russia soon and it’s so cold there during this time, if I actually went in my pajamas to the store, would I be harshly judged?

would my Russian boyfriend be embarrassed? Disappointed? Or think bad or less of me if I were to do this?

if someone is Russian here your opinion would be great but anyone else just imagine in our culture people never do this and then someone comes and does this, would it really bother you? To what extent or how would you view this person?

If I look not so awful and rather cute in doing this, could I possibly be encouraging others to start doing the same, therefore creating something that is not so pleasant in a different country with different standards?

what don you guys think?