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Okay, so a few days back I admitted to my ex that I can't be just friends, I'll always want to be more. I asked her a couple of times she must tell me if I should stop being with her since she was in a relationship with a couple of guys since the break up and still is in a relationship. I also ask she must block me if she doesn't see a future with us again. She just replied okay and never blocked me. Since then I haven't spoken to her. Anyway yesterday I felt for some reason in my heart I should buy her a bouquet of different color roses and a chocolate with a message that i hope brightens her day. I did order some and it still needs to be delivered to her, I felt good doing, I don't expect her to come back to me I don't know why I did it. She still has no clue that I did it, I asked the florist to keep it anonymously. This morning I woke up going through my whatsapps and I saw her status were she was hanging out with her boyfriend that have another girlfriend, I think he is more devoted to cause he hits my ex girlfriend (even tough she hurt me. I still care a lot about her. And will do anything for her to so she would stop seeing that guy) also the other guy that was with her is also her ex, because he cheated on her. So basically she is hanging out with a bunch of men that hurt her. Before me was in a 3 year toxic relationship.
It hurt me this morning when I saw it because she was doing so good and now she falls back in the same trap. I regret ordering her the flowers now. I can't cancel the order now
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Man, that's rough. I can see why seeing her with those guys again would make you regret getting her flowers. But don't be too hard on yourself - we've all done stuff we regret when we cared about someone.
First things first, don't stress about cancelling the order. What's done is done, no use beating yourself up over it now. Try to let go of any expectations of what might happen. She might appreciate the gesture, or she might not, but that's not really the point.
As for her being back with those jerks, I know it hurts to see. But you've gotta accept she's going to make her own choices, even if they're mistakes, as long as she's happy. All you can do is let her know you care about her well-being and you're there if she needs a friend, without putting pressure on her.
Maybe give her some space for now so she doesn't feel crowded. Work on moving on yourself - hang with the guys, play some ball, pick up a new hobby. Show herself you're doing fine without her and it'll be better for both of you in the long run. I know it's rough, but you'll get through it bro!
she's not required to block or that shit. you are being immature.
take a hint she's not worth it anyway.
What kind of help do you need?
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