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Ending an engagement?

I have been with my boyfriend for a few years and have lived together just as long. My boyfriend now fiance proposed back in May. I was happy he was finally getting serious and wanting to settle down. Before, I was unsure...
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If you're a guy and your name is this, this is probably your personality (REDUX).

This is my 100th MyTake! So I'm going to go back to an old MyTake and update a little bit for 2023. If this is your name, this is likely your personality and who you are. IT'S NOT SERIOUS. DON'T TAKE IT SERIOUSLY. IT IS...
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I think I am going to break up with my girlfriend tonight and need advice?

I am terrible at confrontation, especially when there isn’t really one particular thing to confront someone about. My girlfriend is very kind, supportive and an all around good person. But over the last year she has...
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Why do women who date/fall in love with younger men get judged so harshly (and much more so than when the gender age gap is reversed)?

I've been dating my boyfriend for about 7 months now. He's about 14 years younger than me. I was super hesitant at first because I was worried about him being so much younger (the youngest guy I dated before was about a...
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She loves me, but won't date me because she is afraid to lose me?

I ( 28M ) have known this girl ( 25F ) for over a year, but we have grown a lot closer in this time. I knew she loves spending time with and being around me because she has said all this to me personally. Recently, I...
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How to love someone when you don’t even love yourself most days?

I have severe major depressive disorder, social phobia with agoraphobia (it’s gotten better over the years), and have even been diagnosed with bipolar disorder. I go through periods of time where I am just so ready to...
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Women with double standards

YES please don't get me wrong there are plenty of men out there too. I will also be clear I am NOT talking about all or even most women who are out there. If you come here calling me a sexist when really I am calling out...
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Guys take breakups/ losing a girl harder then the opposite

Something I've been thinking about recently, after my most recent breakup, is that not only do guys feel emotions as acutely as women (especially negative ones, like sadness and depression), but the loss of a romantic...
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I miss my ex after being angry at him for years. What should I do?

I did love him and he broke my heart. I had no choice but to look at the situation and tell myself that if it was real, things would have worked. A long time ago he reached out to me to makeup and told me if I ever wanted...
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Advice for a girl who keeps getting ghosted by guys who seemed to seriously like me?

Part of unpacking why I was ghosted the first or second time came with over explaining myself and suddenly having a spotlight on me to prove that I DO matter and that I AM a good person. At least that’s how I saw it....
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Is this normal or is he getting bored?

My boyfriend and I have not been dating long, about a month or so. But I have known and loved him for four years now (we met as I'm friends with his sister) and we have never been happier until this week ish. I'm an...
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I think my boyfriend might be getting bored and fancies someone else. Please help?

My boyfriend and I have not been dating long, about a month or so. But I have known and loved him for four years now (we met as I'm friends with his sister) and we have never been happier until this week ish. I'm an...
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What may be the reason for some guys to find and get into a relationship?

Hi, all. Im talking this in Indian context, Let me talk about me first and what made me to ask this question in second. I had a decent job, decent saving, and a future plan. Had average looks and a nice behaviour. My...
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Can an ex regain feelings for you?

My ex broke up with me over a year ago. I think the bottom line was he kind of love bombed me.. I wasn’t sure for the first few weeks but then I started really liking him. we were both hanging out a lot, probably too much...
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How do you get over getting cheated on back to back?

I broke up with my first girlfriend because she cheated on me and made me feel like a second option to everyone. The girl that gave me the confidence to break up with her asks me out shortly after , and is my co worker....
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My decision in going back to college in my 30s

"Life always offers you a second chance, it's called tomorrow" - Stephen King When I graduated High School in 2009, I enrolled at East Tennessee State University to major in Elementary Education, which in hindsight was...
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I’ve never been in relationship and the loneliness is getting to me. How do you get over bitterness when you don’t know what else to do?

First of all I’m fairly attractive young smart my biggest issue is I’m a slow relationship mover, I overthink, get mad when I can’t read people and I don’t like the guys that approach me. I like quiet nerdy introverts,...
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I’m so confused I need help?

i really dont know what to say but i met i guy months ago and he asked me to be his girlfriend he was so sweet and caring and i agreed, we spent good times together but one day we had an argument about him talking to...
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How to help my girlfriend now that her ex is getting married?

She saw on social media that he was getting married and she's really upset. He was her first love, they dated through highschool and again when they were 20 but it didn't work out. She says she's over him but...
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What do I do with my long distance boyfriend?

we broke up…for the second time. first time in may, he said he needed time to understand who he was and what he wanted and he was scared he wasn’t enough for me and the relationship, that he couldn’t give me what it...
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