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Search Results: should i ask her out first date
Why did he act so tense?
I went on a first date yesterday with a guy I met on a dating app. He seemed engaged and called me gorgeous in our messages before the date. I was about 15-20 minutes late. When I got there he didn’t compliment me and...
Anonymous
(30-35) I've been on 2 dates with a man who won't let me pay. Any thoughts?
I know I'm going to get complains from girls, haha (maybe some guys too?) The reason why I asked is because I don't expect guys to pay for every date or everything on a date. I feel that guys shouldn't have to pay for...
Anonymous
(30-35) There is a girl at my church I'd like to pursue a relationship with. Any advice?
I'm a college student, and i hang at my churches student center very frequently. I met a girl this year there and we are friends. We talk when we see each other. we shared numbers, and we text a little, and we're both...
bepis0_
Xper 1 Age: 22 What is an appropriate way to ask my close friend out?
I have a close female friend We share a lot of values We both want the same things We regularly talk about how a relationship would be and discuss in details sometimes She knows way more than me tho I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Spent 5 days with his family, is it too soon to bring up the relationship talk?
I have been speaking to this guy for 1½ month, he asked me to go with him to his sister's wedding before we even had our first date. I live in his home country and he lives in the UK. Had our first date the day he arrived...
Anonymous
(18-24) Im not sure what to do 100%?
i like a female friend at college who i have known for a few months. The problem is i never really talked to her that much when hanging out in the group but i did a few times and she's looked at me and stuff. So i reckon...
Gluggerz
Xper 1 Age: 19 Why is he doing this?
I dated a guy and got rejected by him but we are friends so it's all good then out of nowhere he started to act weird Examples: Told him about a party: are these men from uni? Do you know them? I asked him for advice bc...
Anonymous
(25-29) When is good time to follow up with guy to check if date is still on?
So this guy and I have been texting few times a day. He always initiated texts and we have had great conversation. He shows his liking towards me quite openly. He asked me out 2 days ago and the first date is today...
Anonymous
(36-45) We had sex and now he ignores me: should I move on?
I met this guy about 8 months ago; we were colleagues on a group project for a class we were taking together. He pursued me at first and asked me out a couple of times before we actually went on a date. The first date we...
KittyKatLady
Xper 4 Age: 25 Should I initiate texts with the guy on days leading up to our first date?
Met Guy on dating app yesterday and talked for about 3 hours last night. He asked me out and I said yes because I want to vibe check in face to face conversation. He set the date, time and place immediately. Date is 3...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys, how would you like a woman to offer to split or pay a tab on a date, after you've paid the first?
If you're going to 2 places with a woman, would you pay for both tabs? If a woman offers to split or get the second tab, how would you like her to word her question, so that she wouldn't insult your masculinity? I...
StarsInTheEyes
Xper 7 Age: 35 How should I interact with my crush?
There is a girl I (M20) like in my class (F22) for last couple of weeks we have been talking in class a little and texting some mostly 5-6 hours a week but I really made her a big deal in my mind. I want to text her...
Anonymous
(18-24) Should I ask the girl I’ve been 3 dates with why she’s been acting more distant recently?
I know this girl from work, and started going on dates a month and a half ago. After the first date I confessed my feelings for her and she said she felt the same. Before the third date she would show interest through...
Anonymous
(18-24) Should I wait for her to initiate the 4th date?
Went on 3 dates with a girl, all planned by me when I asked her out first. First one I don’t really count as a date it was more just a friendly hangout, but this next one would be the 3rd one that’s romantic-centric....
Anonymous
(18-24) Held hands and hugged on the second date but didn’t kiss?
It’s technically our 3rd date, but I count the first one as more as a hang out since the word date wasn’t really established and we both weren’t sure of each other’s intentions. She expresses clear interest over text, and...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is it possible to date someone long distance that we met on vacation?
So I went to Azores with a friend to a hostel and I met a guy there. We bonded really quickly and while playing a game one night he said that he didn't want a serious relationship because rn he's travelling a lot. That...
MairimBP
Xper 3 Age: 23 First date questions?
Alright so I have a date in a few days with someone I matched with on a dating app and she hasn’t been the most talkative person BUT when I asked if she wanted to go out so we can talk in person she seemed to like that...
confusedguy310382
Xper 1 Age: 25 Guys, why does it take so long for you to propose?
Me and my boyfriend started dating in 2020 January. It was a rough one, because I had undiagnosed BPD and it was his first relationship. After a year, he wanted to propose but he changed his mind. Fair, I didn't really...
Anonymous
(25-29) Boyfriend pulls out from house purchase and wants to travel instead?
Me and him have dated for a year, lived together for 6 months. We met at a time when we were both ready to get on the property ladder and after some debating we considered buying together since we are both high income...
victoriaxoxo
Xper 7 Age: 28 How long should I wait to message a guy after a first date?
I met a guy through Instagram/university/gym/mutual friend (haha yes, all of the above). We’ve been talking on and off since February - he messaged me first giving a recommendation about something, then the convos...
Anonymous
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