There is a girl I (M20) like in my class (F22) for last couple of weeks we have been talking in class a little and texting some mostly 5-6 hours a week but I really made her a big deal in my mind. I want to text her everyday, but most of my girl friends says I shouldn't do it.
She is really shy and unlike her I am much more outgoing except for people I have a crush.
About the interactions first she replied to my story, then we talked about some exams I hurried to much and asked for a coffee date in our 2nd small chat and she left me on seen but later she texted me back. Last week it gone well we texted noon to midnight, she burnt her cookies while we were talking vice versa. I think she might like me but I don't know, Its been long time since I had this much of excitement from talking with a girl. I don't get this exacited normally (Its also been long yime since I felt something for someone)
TL;DR: Don't know how to interact with crush, she might like me back.
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Here's what I would do man:
First off, don't panic or overthink it too much. Sounds like you guys are connecting so far, which is good!
I'd say text her a couple times a week to start. Don't want to seem too obsessive since you're still getting to know each other. Ask how her day is going, share something funny that happened.
In class, sit near her and chat before/after like you've been doing. Maybe find excuses to partner up if you get group activities.
Compliment her casually like how she looks or if she says something smart. But don't lay it on too thick - we guys have a tendency to come on too strong!
Also listen to what SHE talks about and seems interested in. Finding common interests is key to really bonding.
Suggest hanging as a group sometime if you're both shy one on one. Ease into being alone together more down the road.
Most of all seem chill and confident bro! If it's meant to be she'll come around. Play it cool and focus on having fun with her. You got this!
Give it time... I noticed you youngsters always in a rush... you should be friends first anyway