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Search Results: trying to hurt me
How do you move on after planning your future with someone who changed?
I'm really heartbroken to have to write about something like this but my boyfriend is withdrawn from our relationship 2 months after I gave birth to our first child. He had been going out a lot or hanging with friends or...
Anonymous
(25-29) My husband has gained a lot of weight lately. How can I bring this up without starting a fight?
So, my husband used to be pretty fit, but over the last year or so, he’s put on quite a bit of weight. I love him no matter what, but I’m starting to worry about his health and, honestly, sometimes I miss the old him who...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do people speak behind back?
I have always heard some rumours about me, the way some people speak behind me, they try to treat me like an as*hole and laugh about me very easily, why people think they can talk shit? And it’s like words can’t hurt you...
Anonymous
(18-24) Guys, have you ever pushed someone away even though you liked them?
There’s a guy I’ve known for years and we’ve always had a complicated connection. He’s opened up a lot to me lately — about childhood trauma, commitment fears, and feeling like he’ll never be good enough for someone. He...
Anonymous
(25-29) How to know if a guy likes me or if I am just wasting my time?
I have a crush on my guy friend. We are religious so we have strict dating standards and expectations (no lusting, spending time alone unless fully dating, influences). We have known each other going on 5 years but never...
Anonymous
(30-35) Fix myself or find another man first?
I know what the attitudes are towards single women my age. Please try to keep this nice. I don’t open up to people that easily so this really hurts. I recently got dumped and he was straight with me about everything that...
silvermoon84
Yoda Age: 42 What do I do about no communication on his end?
My boyfriend 27m hasn't talked to me 29f in 3 days after we had a argument and I am losing my mind. He came home Saturday night at 11 and said im sorry to go to bed as soon as I get home but im tired so I told him ok im...
Anonymous
(30-35) When you are have been bad at something. Do you avoid doing it in the future so as not to be humiliated?
I'm talking about mostly specific sports. I've gone skiing exactly twice in my life and both times I was really bad at it and once I got hurt. Ever since then I've avoided doing it even though it's an activity that many...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do I handle my complicated relationship?
I've been needing advice on this for a long long time, but never knew where or how to ask. I've been seeing a woman for quite some time now. We started very intense, but both had just gotten out of relationships. We have...
miyiva9717
Xper 1 Age: 35 Does anyone else feel the same?
I feel so alone, tired and unloved. I have no friends anymore, barely anyone talks to me and I'm not enjoying life. I don't know why I'm still trying, I'm not going to hurt myself or anything but I'm so tired, I'm sad....
JJones03
Xper 5 Age: 22 What does a guy mean that I gotta go lower to get respect from a good man as a tall woman?
My ex boyfriend years ago flirted with my friend (she dated him years before) right in front of me and I was so hurt and my bestie told me about it and she said I hit him. I don’t remember hitting him. I mean I liked him...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do men always lose interest in me after a few months?
I (26F) want to understand why so I can fix the problem. Men (6 I’ve talked to in the past year, between 25-42) seem to like me at first, texting, calling, going on dates, and then within a few months it gradually stops....
Anonymous
(25-29) How do you rebuild intimacy after a broken trust?
Just to be clear, I did not cheat but I did make my boyfriend feel unappreciated and unsafe. Backstory : Saw his ex popped up on his phone, I immediately started accusing him and pointing fingers at him. Cornering him,...
Anonymous
(18-24) What does this dream mean to you and how would you contextualize it?
I had a dream where God said that if I listened to him, he would sabotage my relationships with immoral people to protect me from being accessible to problematic people that might try to harm, hurt, or rob me of the...
Am I wrong for wanting to fix my friend up?
I matchmake. It’s what I do for my friends and not to toot my own horn, but I’m good at it. I’ve brought so many of my friends into happy, healthy relationships that eventually turned into happy marriages. I have one...
Anonymous
(36-45) I called a man who treated me badly for years a b*tch. Is it normal to feel this bad about it?
I have been seeing this man on and off for three years. He hasn’t been good to me and has disrespected me many times and has hurt me many times. He’s never been my boyfriend, but I kept them at arms length because I have...
Anonymous
(25-29) My boyfriend is upset with and ignoring me. What should I do?
Ok so the other day I said something that was petty and selfish. He definitely was not happy with me. I apologized for it. He said he loved me and hung up. I asked if he would call me when he got back to his house he told...
Anonymous
(36-45) When old love makes us sink…
There are loves that lift us and then there are the ones that drown us slowly. We don’t always notice it at first. An old bad love doesn’t come back into our lives with fireworks. It sneaks in quietly, in the space...
I cry when I try to defend myself, how can this pass?
I can't defend myself on issues where I'm right, I'm crying. Many experts say that parents teach their children that no matter what their elders say, the child should be silent. I experienced this when I was a child. I...
red-lipstick-girl
Explorer Age: 22 Is vulnerability a strength or a weakness in today’s world?
These days everyone tries to act tough, like they don't care, don't feel, don't cry. But does opening up really make you weak, or does it take real strength to be honest about your feelings? In your experience, has being...
Anonymous
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