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I have a very permissive attitude towards cheating in a relationship. Ladies, what are your thoughts on this? Should men be forgiving if she cheats?
Ladies, I tend to have a very lenient attitude towards being cheated on in a relationship. In fact, it's nothing I'd even consider ending a relationship over. In fact, being cheated on has never made me angry or violent....
billmunch
Xper 6 Age: 53 Who goes to heaven?
For those of you who believe in heaven and god, this is something I’ve always wondered. I’ve heard many different answers ranging from all being saved, to basically nobody getting into heaven. Each idea having its own...
Zestyassmf1997
Explorer Age: 28 Why does a man talk to me from his second Facebook account?
He made his official Facebook profile private in terms of who can message him, told all our mutual male friends that he and I ‘don’t see eye to eye;’ and now he’s added me from his second Facebook account, with his photo,...
How long should I give this guy before I ask if he is still interested?
Hear me out. Before reading, I like giving details that gives the reader complete understanding of the story. I am not rushing anything just curious because I never did this before and i don't know when is the proper time...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do men keep complaining about declining Birth Rates?
Women are wanting to have mens kids less and less. So what? You guys talk so much trash about moms period and a deadbeat father is nothing new. Plus so many of you guys don’t take care of your appearance why would I want...
Anonymous
(25-29) How to not be a Misogynist?
Firstly I'll ask this guys only cause most women on this site love yelling at you rather than understanding or trying to help Basically I hate it when women are better than me at what I do and I put in everything to...
Anonymous
(25-29) I've been struggling to understand some behaviors in my relationship. Why do you think a guy would claim to love someone, yet exhibit these bvrs?
I've also found myself struggling to reconcile his assurances that I am the best thing and that he's never cheated with certain behaviors that have given me cause for concern. The recent discovery of a text where he...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is toxic femininity/masculinity a lot more harmful to someone of the opposite gender than it is to your own?
Like anyone I’ve seen and experienced both toxic masculinity and femininity from both men and women in my life. But I have far fewer hang ups about other men being assholes vs. dealing with bitchy women who pull toxic...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why would he do that, is he afraid ill hurt him, will he ever come back?
Greetings everyone and happy new year! I have met a borderline guy with narcissistic tendencies and I can say thing escalated quickly. We went from sexting to deep connecting n sweet talking then to full ghosting out of...
PetiteG
Xper 2 Age: 28 Why did he do that , does he see me as his favorite person now who will leave him, hurt him?
Greetings everyone and happy new year! I have met a borderline guy with narcissistic tendencies and I can say thing escalated quickly. We went from sexting to deep connecting n sweet talking then to full ghosting out of...
PetiteG
Xper 2 Age: 28 Do you think having a brother shapes a woman’s personality and having a sister shapes a man’s personality?
Growing up my brother was 1.5 younger than me but while I was shy, a bit socially awkward and study-oriented, he was the opposite, he was very popular, kind of a player and very outgoing. In my teens, When I felt lost and...
I’m initial fault but it made me worried about everything? What are your thoughts?
Recently, my girlfriend and I had our first serious discussion stemming from an issue with her guy friend. It wasn't a fight, more an expression of feelings and a warning to shape up or risk the relationship. I admitted...
Anonymous
(25-29) Understanding Women’s Social Nervousness
I write this for guys who feel frustrated or confused by the way women can seem sometimes when they’re interacting with them, particularly who are young or just don’t have a lot of experience in mingling with females. So...
What's the reason for men lying about being attracted to a woman?
I just left from seeing my friends with benefits and again he lied to my face. He told me I couldn't just visit him without saying anything. So I asked him if he was saying he didn't want to see me anymore. And he said...
Candykanelove
Xper 4 Age: 39 Guys, Should I reply to my ex?
We try to be safe, and open-hearted with each other. We broke up 3 months ago due to his need to experience with others. He's 30 and I was his only relationship, of 4 years. He struggles to move, like me, after 3 months....
Anonymous
(25-29) Whats your take on a girl in a long distance relationship having a crush on someone in real life?
Before anyone starts coming at me because i know it may sound really really bad for some people, please let me explain. I'm not stating my exact age but i am a teenager and my boyfriend is the same and we have been...
Anonymous
(18-24) How should I react to phone use during important conversations? (Tomboy who respects men & not wanting to act like classic nagging wife )?
Context: I recently found out about infidelity towards me from my male partner of just over 7 years. I wanted to ask him questions to ease my mind about trusting them again but he never puts his phone down and continues...
Kathosprime
Xper 1 Age: 39 Y'all did I do the right decision?
So me and my boyfriend broke up. I am 36 weeks pregnant of him. And like I explained in my previous question. I went and asked him questions like :'who is he seeing when he sleeps over at his friends house' cause he is...
Anonymous
(30-35) Am I wrong for feeling this way?
There is a guy who caused me problems, he would judge me, humiliate me if I wouldn’t give him attention and he also had a huge ego. Well recently I heard that he is battling an illness. When I heard the news I didn’t feel...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why when you show a broken hearted guy love and care, chooses another person to love?
When you show care, understanding and some nurturing to a broken hearted guy friend, chooses another a person to love ( I confess I thought I had a chance with him). I met this guy, who had a lot of baggage from his...
Anonymous
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