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I'm hurting right now and very upset. My suspicious were confirmed just 2 days ago when my husband left his FB messenger open. It was messages between him and my SIL (sister-in-law). He admitted to her that he always loved his ex girlfriend Olivia from his much younger years. They met as 9 year-olds playmates, then dated for a short time in their Sophomore year of HS, she broke up the next year and met someone else.

The woman is married but still has him on his FB contact list as friends. He admitted to my SIL that he still loves her more than me. He loves me but I'm not really his first option. He would've wanted to have kids with her. He also said it was true what he once told me while drunk when we were just dating. Then this was the hurting part for me, the SIL asked if he would leave me if Olivia were to get divorced now and she reciprocated his feelings and he reply was a ''Yes, unfortunately I would leave (my name) but that'll never happen. I have to accept being in Olivia's forever friendzone''.

Flashback to the time we were just boyfriend and girlfriend:

We were drinking and while making love, he called me by her name. He literally said ''Oh Olivia, I love you... yeah''. Then tried to fix it right away when I got upset immediately. He called it a stupid drunken mistake and how we would never get drunk like that ever again and even reconfirmed me a bunch of times that he got over her already. I stupidly believed him.

Is this fair? We have a 7 year-old son and he's still obsessing over her? He never got over her and just got with me as second best.

We think my cousins husband is grooming his single friends teen daughter! Like most of the family is kinda wondering and talking.

He is always with the teen and the mom is always just tagging along with the 2 of them and him to things. Along with his wife who is never his primary focus.

There is including a single mom in stuff but this is going way beyond that!

The mom has issues and only dates the wrong guys. Her ex screamed at her that he would rape her daughter if she did not give in to things!

Her ex is now in jail... Again

I work with this woman who is 24 years old now. But when she was 23, she said this guy only like women her age, and our other coworker age (21). The guy was 52 at the time. She said “He like them young tender-roni women.”

I don’t know if she was speaking from facts because he told her, or assumptions. How she were talking, it sound like she were assuming.

But he been with older women, was on vacation with an older woman this pass June. Someone close to his age. He’s a fine older man, who is single. He checks out every good looking woman, especially if she has a butt. The women he’s known to talk to looks like they are late 20s and definitely up.

So I think my co worker allow social media, and what those guys say get to her head. Thinking every older guy JUST date women in their 20’s.

I want to see what y’all think.