How can you like someone you aren’t even close friends with?

[Ofjtbtbtbt]

Used to be a love st first sight person. Would fantasize about a guy and it made me emotionally attach i guess irrationally and to delusions about them cause really I would fall in love and not know about them. I think that was Al just lust. I guess lust can make you feel like you’re feeling deep emotions. I’d cry over guys hard. Like I was just really into these guys in my head.


but now I just think how can any guy approach me and say he loves me. Recently a guy from work took me on dates and he wouldn’t even ask about me or my life on the dates yet was telling me he loves misses wants to marry etc all this extreme stuff.


Also a guy at work told me AT WORK “I love you”. we had barely any conversations! He doesn’t know my name even.


I think he just likes the feeling of flirting with young women.


when I think what I like about a guy I don’t know closely I ask myself now what do I like about them- an image? That’s all I have of them. Their image as I see it in my head. I don’t know them at all.

[RoseySarah]

Sounds like an issue that a lot of people have!

They fall for the person they dream of and create. Like you said!

They fall in love with the idea of you! Not you!

So they creat love which is just fake 🤥.

It's so creepy when guys do this! Usually just do this on celebrities as teens.

[Ofjtbtbtbt]

Yuuup! We who do this have to grow up 😁

[RoseySarah]

Most women grow out of it or handle it like you do but guys yeah they don't!

[Nirmroth]

Ye you're mixing up love with attraction/liking someone. Love really takes time to build, I would be vary of anyone who speaks of love within the first 6 months of dating. Something ain't right either with the persons psyche or they are out trying to love bomb/manipulate you.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I can't, I can only fall in love with a female best friend.

[Avicenna]

All you can be is physically attracted

[In_Trance]

Very good question
I don't get people's logic on this