Search Results: Ways for girls to approach guys

Girls, Ladies, what advice would you give a guy on how to approach women he finds interesting enough to want to possibly date?

Long story short, I'm behind getting into the dating scene. Severe depression played a big part in making middle school and high school (save once) impossible to try to date and my attempts in college always ended with...

UmbrusNightshade

Xper 5 Age: 40

Is it true that women will never put in as much effort as guy in a relationship that's why men and women can't be equal?

Think about it this way if men always have to talk to women first then she'll always do less because he's chasing her. Therefore they can't put in effort until they chase. Cause when I see guy approach dozens of girls...

chris_987

Yoda Age: 38

Flirting

Girl looks at me, I look at her, what can I do?

Once in class, this girl TURNED HER HEAD BACK and looked at me for 40 seconds straight. I rule out the possibility that I was simply in her line of vision because she turned her head back deliberately. Thing is there was...

Daredevil9231

Xper 2 Age: 25

Why is this guy hostile towards me for no reason?

Not dating, just mutual friend. I met a girl, and she told me she wanted to introduce me to her group of friends. Met them all, very friendly, even this guy. Hung out with them again, again great vibes. But this time the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I feel invisible next to my skinny white friends, how do I be more confident and let go of others opinions of me?

I am a 20 year old mixed (black/white) woman in a white town. I’ve always been used to being the only person of color next to my family. Since I was a kid I’ve always been the only black girl in my group of friends,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why do old guys approach young girls?

Today I have been approached by a 35 year old guy during me literally just enjoying my lunch and minding my own business. by the way for your info everybody tells me I look like a teen and this motherfucker acted...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What makes a girl approach a guy ( stranger ) ?

I don't mean for hookups by the way... Is it because she finds him attractive and " safe " and he gave her the right vibes she doesn't get from most guys she meets? Is it mainly about the looks? Is it because he fits her...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Hey Girls, im Getting mix signals from a emotionally destroyed female. I need to know whats going on?

So here's the deal and sorry for any typos I'm using text to speech. I'm getting ready to turn 35 on December 26th she's getting ready to turn 41 on January 15th we dated for 2 months which originally started with her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I don’t know who to go for when dating?

I’m sort of new into the dating world because of an improvement in my looks I don’t know how to start. I’ve been with a few guys but none of it ever worked out. I’ve been with a guy for 9 months and he cheated on me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Awkward, or crushing?

There are a lot of questions on here that are like, 'he told me he loves me. What does this mean?' I'm trying my best not to make this that kind of question, but for all I know, it is one, and I'm an idiot. The last time...

AmyHew1tt

Xper 7 Age: 21

Will I be waiting for eternity if I wait for some girl to make the first move (19M)?

I don't have the courage to approach and ask out a girl that I don't know well. I always think of the worst case scenario when I try to imagine actually doing it, I'm afraid that'll be called a creep or a weirdo or hear...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is he interested?

There’s a guy that I have found to be good looking in one of my classes in Uni. He never really stood out to me before until a few weeks ago when I got his help with some schoolwork. We started texting about it and hed...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Committed Relationship. What is the hang up over commitment?

This is MyTake on the subject, so this my prospected based upon my personal experiences. What does it mean to be in a committed relationship? To me personally it when you and another person are in relationship together,...

DaveJord

Influencer Age: 49

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Isn't it possible to be friends anymore after confessing?

I recently confessed to my close guy friend. And I told him I respected his answer and that I just want to remain close friends. But he started acting awkward. He started ghosting me when I try to text him. But when he...

Wintergirl21

Xper 4 Age: 32

Does society prefer women to have more influence when it comes to attraction and liking a guy versus the other way around?

The best example i can think of is when a girl thinks or speculates a guy might have a crush on her, people say that it’s cute and that he probably does like her. but if it happened the other way around, the guy is told...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What's going through your mind when you feel like this, what do you truly want or need when you seemingly cry out? Too often it's really not clear?

Girls, when you're having a really bad day, and feeling really hurt and wounded, and insecure and destabilized etc, and you have a problem, or problems, and you have a close male in your life, (that you're not in a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How should you deal with a shy / introverted girl? Is it always doomed?

So, you meet a girl... Attraction happens... both of you can feel it.. You want to get closer to her... but it turns out she's more on the shy / introverted side... she doesn't know how to really flirt or give you...

Rockstarrrrr

Explorer Age: 29