Search Results: too nice

Hey, I don't know how to start, but is my character really that unattractive?

Hey, I'm not ugly, I'm not poor either. I'm a normal guy. You could even say I look good. I'm tall, 6 feet tall, quite slim, and blond. I've never had a girlfriend. And it's not that I only go for girls who look like...

funnyguy11

Xper 5 Age: 32

How do you not let rejection ruin your self esteem?

The dating scene has done a lot of damage to my self esteem. I don't go out much but upon the few occasion that I have, I have almost always gotten rejected at every outing. At one point, my friend and I went to a party....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Shopping & Gifts

Why do I feel bad and shy when try to gift him for special occasion?

I love this guy so much I want to get him gifts that he would like best. I always think of gifts in advance (a month early) before the occasion. But when the time comes I always fail to gift him the right one. I feel bad...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Do you think its strange to add a guy on Facebook who I have mutual friends with? How would you approach the situation (Details below)?

Please read before answering: Okay, I have Facebook and I tried out "Facebook dating" for the first time in my life 2 weeks ago-and during that time-this guy (let's call him Tom) said that he was attracted to me and gave...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, What would prompt you to make a GRAND GESTURE for a girl you're just friends with?

A fellow has suddenly taken to running all sorts of odd errands for me. I don't even have to ask him. I state that I have a problem (X) and suddenly X is magically resolved and he's waiting to get his praise or scooby...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Would you ever date a lawyer?

My father always said to date them but never marry one because they know how to screw you up the best (not in the nice way). Plus she's the daughter of the family friend that helped me settle and get my house in the US,...

Sun_Kim-Ai

Guru Age: 28

Society & Politics

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What Is a Racist?

Everyone’s definition of the word ‘racist’ is different, making the term mostly meaningless. I’m not a racist by MY definition, which, in the end, is all that matters to me, anyway. Maybe you have asked yourself, “What...

Dargil

Master Age: 36

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Why does my boyfriend value me being "liked" by others and wants me to be popular?

I know this sounds crazy but I thought long and hard about what exactly is it that my boyfriend wants from me that he isn't getting already. I KNOW that not being able to simply ask him is a deep rooted issue in itself...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Please help with advice, I’m grieving that someone treated me badly and doesn’t care. Is this something you felt before?

I have been in a situationship for years. Please spare me the mean comments, but I know I’m on the internet so I’m prepared for it. I’m aware it was a Situationship. This person was never ideal for me but I latched on...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Bare minimum or too much?

Is it bare minimum to send your partner a nice message or give a back tickle if she has reached out saying she needs a little something extra because she feels forgotten due to being busy with kids, both having fulltime...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What's it mean when the same guy is called 'weird' by every gal but 'a great guy' by every guy?

I've been dealing with a difficult sort of guy. in my opinion he has his moments, however in general he's a skatty sort of personality and best addressed from a safe distance. Recently a bunch of women (ages 30-85) have...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Avoid heartbreak?

I am too old for the BROKEN HEART SYNDROM. Just wanna talk... I don't expect good advices. I met a man. On our first date, he took the initiative and we exchanged more than just kisses. It was quick and brief. We met...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What was this all along? Am I over thinking to much?

To start off with I have not been in a since 2021 - my partner of 10yrs died and was grieving him for a long time until 2024 when friends recommended to do tinder just to at least talk to a man and honestly maybe have a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why are people offended by the word “situationship”? If you don’t like it, don’t settle for it?

I kind of pissed my friend off this morning. I didn’t mean to, but she was in a 10 month situationship that she’s in denial about before the guy dumped her. She’s moving on and is seeing other guys, but she still gets...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How does he feel about me?

So, I’ve been going to a döner restaurant for about a year. There’s a guy working there (about my age) who’s been noticeably nice to me from the start – he’s given me free simit sticks several times, always speaks with...

Anonymous

(18-24)

When do I know my loneliness needs therapeutic attention?

I know that I’m still young and the right person isn’t here for me yet but it gets to a point. I’ve never dated or been romantically involved with anyone. I’m so romance-starved that I get super delusional about any crumb...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Am I an asshole for not wanting a pizza date?

Im turning 30 in a few months, worked hard throughout my youth to become very financially well off. Just refuse to go on Dumpling or pizza or McDonald's dates anymore. This type of stuff is what 19 to 20 yr olds do on...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, Would you date a man that 7ft tall even if he has what you’re looking for in a man?

If course the personality matters but physical attraction is too. Honestly yes I would. Plus I’m 6’4 so it would be nice to feel short for once. He better not say I’m too tall since I’m eight inches shorter than a 7ft guy.

AmazonChick171

Xper 7 Age: 27