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girlfriend (33) has said she needs more emotional intimacy and vulnerability primarly through conversation. She has asked me (m32) to ask more about her life, dreams, culture l, ask deep questions etc however I fid this difficult. Firstly she rarely does this herself (which I find strange if it is her need) surely she wouldn't be able to stop herself asking me those very same questions, initiating deep conversations etc and secondly I prefer conversations like this to happen organically, the couple of times i have come prepared with a few questions it just feels forced and my girlfriend knows it so it doesn't fulfil her anyway. I therefore asked if she could show me, teach me how she would like these conversations to proceed by initiating a few of her own so we can build on it. I thought it might be a good idea but she said no, that this was her need so I should want to do it. I understand her frustration but I honestly don't feel she is taking enough responsibility for her own need. Not really sure where we go from here. Am I wrong for expecting her to take some responsibility for her needs, as in make an effort and not leave it completely to me?

I am almost 24. No girlfriend never had one and don’t get any girls wanting to get to know me. I’m not fat, I’m tall, everything’s good. I’m a nice guy and would treat a girl really well.

It’s a bummer really.

Doesn’t make any sense

I had a good girlfriend that seemed perfect. So beautiful and lovely. She was hanging out and eating with a lunch with guys.

I told her ‘do you see me ever hanging out with other girls…….. no…. I have respect’ She continued arguing saying they’re friends etc…..

I left her. With pride in who I am and what I accept. I expect the basics from women. The basics!

So I’m an Indian guy, but live in Europe. My first girlfriend was this this stunning Italian girl with blonde hair.

I realised I was moving far and she’d continue living there for the next 5 years and I can’t wait that long to get married and have kids. 2 years fine. But I would end up being 30. Just didn’t make sense.

But she was the nicest girl 😢 good heart, really humble, sweet and just like a girl that would be my side. Dream girl.

I left her 😭