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My first wife was a smoker. I hated it and she eventually would go outside to smoke. After a few years, she quit because she needed surgery and the surgeon wouldn't proceed until she had stopped for at least 30 days. After our divorce, I never again dated a smoker.

"It's like kissing an ashtray" is a cliche, but it's true. And she smelled bad unless she had not smoked since taking a shower. And. . . my perception is that most smokers - men and women - are oblivious to the rights of others and don't care if their smoke is annoying you or triggering a migraine headache.

So. . . never again for me. How about you?

Most girls have a past. Why couldn’t they just pick well in the beginning? I get relationships are complicated but they go for red flags 🚩or ignore them and wonder why they got what they deserved? Going after the bad boy as they say.

Then afterwards they realise why no good men want to date them and struggle to take any accountability.

We don’t want what another men has had.