Search Results: having sex for the first time

Should I wish a happy birthday to the guy who ghosted me?

There's this guy whom I had a some sort of relationship with. More like a friends with benefits relationship because he didn't consider me as a girlfriend cause he got a girlfriend later who was living in the same country...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Really bothered/confused by a male friend's behavior. What should I do?

We are not teens. We are grown adults just for reference. We've been friends awhile now. It's been great. No issues. We started talking about the potential of hooking up like a month ago. We were both on board and agreed...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Did me texting my ex ruin my relationship?

I believe this is what ended things with my recent boyfriend. my boyfriend and I gotten into a fight and we separated for a split second. During our separation, my ex contacted me during my separation. ——My ex has been in...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Religion & Spirituality

Why do people like to be judgmental until they are on the receiving end of being judged?

For example, I am a former alcoholic and I am celebrating 3 years of being sober with no smoking or drinking. I attend church for myself and not to please my family or anyone else and most of the time no one really judges...

jongreat46

Xper 6 Age: 32

Is there such thing as a shy player?

I’ve been seeing this guy for about 5-6 weeks now. We’d been chatting for a few months prior. I can understand people are shy with someone new and it takes time but he never gives any affection at all I would’ve thought...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I get rid of these thoughts?

First of all, am 27 & my boyfriend is 50. We’ve been living together for 3 years now. I love him of course but there are some memories i wish to remove from my mind. I considered him as a womanizer. He used every dating...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend asked me if I'm cheating on him? What makes a guy ask a question like that?

Okay so me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship. We live in two different countries. The last time he visited me was in June, last year. So we were having a video call and he asked "Are you cheating on...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I be worried about our sex life?

boyfriend and I been together going on 4 years, he wasn’t a big sexual guy and I initiated things a lot but he enjoyed. Lately as we progress into about to move in phase after school is done with and we’ve adjusted into...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I had sex with a guy and now ghosted?

I had sex with a guy on 2/14. I went over to his house and at first he could not get his penis up. He was really embarrassed so we stopped trying and he started telling me that his dad passed away on Christmas and how...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

How would you react if your teen announced a pregnancy?

I am in no way a parent but as a 28 yr old I may become one. My partner and I have different views about a subject and I wonder if I am the one being unreasonable. All of this started with a conversation about allowing...

BlackCat999

Xper 3 Age: 31

What is a person who never apologizes for their behavior & yet blames (through their actions towards them) a person that apologized multiple times?

A few months ago there was a bit of a disagreement with boyfriend. I asked to do more than sex. First day he said we'd do something, fell asleep. Works a lot so I let him be. Next day he said go for a movies, went to a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Entertainment & Arts

🚢 Jack’s Death Was In Vain?

Hello.. my serving name is @RoseXøxø.. I’m [zero days] free of takes and questions.. lol Is this an addiction? Probably, but let’s get through this (I’ll be lying if I say last) LAST take of mine 😂 (I told you I was...

Rosexøxø

Guru Age: 23

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Other

Advice for Guys: Avoiding A Sexual Harassment Case

Gotta tell you guys this has been in the works for the last 4 or 5 years now, something I’ve worked on here and there but finally decided to complete it when we recently had a big situation with a guy and girl on my job....

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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Break Up & Divorce

Why is it so hard to move on from my ex?

we broke up in October the break up was really bad he went back to his ex told her all of my business and forced me to get a abortion We live together until our lease ends in December. after our breakup he asked me for a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I going crazy or am I being cheated on?

So this was a birthday for my girlfriends best friend, soo they have a closed backyard that we had a braai and games in, I found it weird that afterwards when it was time to eat she had left her phone behind (something...

Anonymous

(25-29)

For the "players" out there, why does my take on monogamy matter?

I mean if you're not interested in anything more than short term casual sex anyway. Why do you care that I'm not monogamous if you aren't? Also, why do you have a problem with me not caring that you're screwing someone...

481632

Xper 3 Age: 48

The issue is NOT boys vs girls. Real solutions must address the real problem: so let's address it.

I've read up a good bit on this site having never been a member myself - I have heard the countless woes of girls talking about the horrible guys they have had to deal with, and I have heard the countless stories of guys...

SimonClass

Xper 2 Age: 28

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Why is he calling 6 times in a row?

Okay so I’ve met this guy on social media. He’s a social media influencer and I commented on one of his stories and we just hit it off from there. 2 weeks from then, he ends up telling me he loves me and wants to get...

Anonymous

(30-35)