A few months ago there was a bit of a disagreement with boyfriend. I asked to do more than sex. First day he said we'd do something, fell asleep. Works a lot so I let him be. Next day he said go for a movies, went to a friend's bday & not even text me once to say not coming.
I may have said things in the heat of the moment. I was incredibly hurt.
Here was someone I thought could be a potential husband & father and when I asked for more than sex, that he respected me for more than cheap sex, he didn't just fail to deliver he failed to show any respect.
I have apologized multiple times since then. I've tried to mend things, etc.
He never apologized once. He still blames me in his behavior. He ignores texts, doesn't communicate properly & then blames me when I don't know things, and has even taken to treating me like a stranger in that our date is to be just coffee.
I honestly hate myself for having not just told him to fuck off. But I did love him, some part still does, and yet why should I be miserable in life.
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No accountability for their actions is a huge problem.
Are you sure he's your boyfriend? Based on what you wrote, he doesn't seem to be interested at all in you or that he's starting to lose interest.
Healthy relationships involve honesty, trust, respect and open communication between partners and they take effort and compromise from both people. There is no imbalance of power. Partners respect each other's independence, can make their own decisions without fear of retribution or retaliation, and share decisions.
Bitter and immature.