Search Results: making out with ex

Every time I've been in a holding cell, most of the other guys arrested were there for not paying child support. They told me they go in front of the judge, pay some token amount from the money in their pocket, get released, move, get a new job before their wages can get clipped too bad, and repeat the cycle.

Most of them saying because the kid isn't theirs. One of my friends convinced himself of that to the point of signing over his parental rights because his ex just didn't want to deal with him anymore.

Anyway, it seems like a lot of the negative, for men and women, could simply be avoided with paternity tests before making that paternity legally binding on a birth certificate, or changing how that works outside marriage, I don't know.

It seems doable though.

these days it seems like everyone is getting ghosted over like nothing , like i though a ghosting was for like serious unresolvable situations where there was a legitimate safety concern. like an ex stalked you or someone won't stop making unwanted contact or advances towards you

not like you went on one date and didn't click so now you don't want to see other person ever again or you did a shot with someone at bar

is it getting out of control? thoughs experiences?