Search Results: on and off relationship advice

How can I stop putting up an emotional barrier?

My Dad is very emotionally distant and has been my entire life, due to the way his parents were with him and how he was brought up. I used to be sad about this, and try all the time to get him to make me feel loved in an...

AmyHew1tt

Xper 7 Age: 21

Break Up & Divorce

My fiance was keeping in touch with his ex and he only told me now, should I still trust him?

The woman, who's the reason why his ex wife divorced him, and who's also married, moved away to end their secret relationship because she got guilty and didn't wanna destroy her family. They were coworkers and she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

The issue is NOT boys vs girls. Real solutions must address the real problem: so let's address it.

I've read up a good bit on this site having never been a member myself - I have heard the countless woes of girls talking about the horrible guys they have had to deal with, and I have heard the countless stories of guys...

SimonClass

Xper 2 Age: 28

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Does guy friend blaime me?

Hi been very good friends with a guy I work with for about 2 years now. Both in relationships. We go gym togeather and have always had such good banter, been there for each other. In the office would grab a drink, but...

Thinkpad1

Xper 2 Age: 38

I'm in a long distance relationship, but his girlfriend text me?

I have been seeing this guy on and off for about 2 years now. We always get hung up on the 5 hour distance between us, but recently things have been going well. He came down to visit last week and as far as I could tell,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

How to fix this about myself?

So I was in a slight relationship for the first time during last summer. I did things I never would’ve expected. I went kind of crazy. I said the most off the wall things when I felt he was trying to play me and I was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating a guy who has a kid?

I was hanging out with my friends the other day. The guy approached me, asked for my number and showed genuine interest in me. We decided to meet up for the first time and had a conversation. I realized that he has a kid...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Anxious and unsure of what to do, Pretty sure we are both being stalked?

Needed to get this off my chest because I feel I have unfinished business. My partner was friends with this psychotic girl who did not respect our relationship at all, or either of us as people for that matter. This was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, What does my sneaky link want?

My sneaky link is very hard to read. I have been very open with him and he knows that I am sleeping with other guys. The other night, however, he made some comments that really caught me off guard. In short, he was giving...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you tolerate sexual frustration in a relationship?

When you are with someone that only thinks of themselves and is one sided , they deny you sex when you try to initiate it and make every excuse as to why they aren’t in the mood , but only come to you when they are in the...

Finchie40

Master Age: 48

Flirting

A guy I’m talking to asked me if I have a boyfriend?

I just met this through mutual friends and we started talking on Snapchat. He is very cute and all but very shy as well. 4 days ago I posted a video of me on my story and he replied with ( ur so cute mashallah, if I just...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I need some advice?

I can’t get over my crush I just can’t I have a gut feeling he likes me even if he gives me clear signs he doesn’t seem interested. He will never text me first but answer to my questions when I text him. He will never...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

I want to contact my ex boyfriend after a year and a half of no contact. Should I apologize?

My ex and I dated for 2 1/2 years. He had a lot of child hood trauma and inner struggles with himself which came out throughout our relationship. He treated me poorly. I loved him so much but I was unhappy and didn’t feel...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Scared of getting hurt?

I’ve (25f) recently started seeing a guy (24m) and we have hit it off incredibly well. We have the same sense of humor, tons in common, and communicate very well! The only problem is that he is moving about 4 states away...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I’m afraid to date a man I genuinely like a lot because he has kids. Any advice or opinions?

I used to be the kind of girl who believed in instant connection because I had fallen in love at first sight when I was 19 years old with a man who ended up playing me before I had even turned 21. That short relationship...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Asking someone out who lives a 3 hour drive away. Thoughts on the distance?

Hey so there is a girl I'm interested in. We've talked on and off with for a while, but I never ended up asking out. (Been a crazy year and didn't have time to date) We've been a bit more out of touch the past few months...

Anonymous

(30-35)