Search Results: qualities in guys

Basically, women who are beautiful and have the world at their finger tips, with unlimited dating options, ending up single and childless due to not lowering their standard and/or being more practical to holding out for some perfect, guy that will never come.

EXAMPLE

Kelly Hu was 34 years old in 2002 when the scorpion king dropped

She could easily have gotten a very decent man for a husband and possibly have kids. Now she is 55 years old, single and childless.

Sure, she can still find a guy now to commit to her, but I guarantee you that it's not a man she would have wanted in her physical prime and most likely is not her best option aka. she would have to settle. And with kids out the picture, not a lot of high, quality guys will take her seriously for long, term relationship.

And we see examples like this all the time, even with average and below average women. Whereby, they hold out for some perfect guy, turning down decent male partners, or raise their standards so high that the only guys who qualify are men who don't want them.

WITHOUT getting shamed?

According to SOME on here, it seems like we aren't allowed to have any - I've seen many on here who are very reasonable too, before anyone starts crying:

• If we want women to shave her body hair, we're petty, because it's 'natural' yet the same user is happy to be repulsed by a man who's balding or has a bit of a belly, despite those being natural, as we age.
• If a guy doesn't want to go down on his woman, he's gay and will get dumped.
• If we care about a woman's body, it's because we're 'ugly', yet one of them who shamed us, said she wouldn't date a male slut.
• If we want to date younger, '80-90%' of us are pedos, but women who date younger 'have options'.
• If we don't want to date a single mother, it's because we aren't 'quality men' who can handle it.
• If we complain about losing our assets in divorce, we're 'disgusting' and deserve it for being a 'POS husband'.

Some of the women's standards rule out the most men, but men aren't allowed to rule out any, not to mention the countless movements you have for women, basically shaming men or forcing them to accept women that they would otherwise find undesirable.

'Body positivity' - "accept me for being fat" - okay, but where's the one for short or fat men?

Let me guess, it's 'female nature' to be XYZ and male to XYZ - okay, but are you doing your own part by having kids or your other feminine duties? - Seems like men have to do their's at all times, but can't expect nothing in return to be a 'quality man' & women just want the leverage to feel superior.

There seems to be a theme to deflect accountability/have a different attitude towards shitty female behaviour vs male - instead, lets cry about F&F, KS & Tate, but not focus on the women who go choose to go on their shows & embarrass themselves or deluded women like little Miss cupcake who went on the Steve Harvey show. 😂

Actually answer the question instead deflecting & remember that I am talking about a few on this site.

I don't know about other guys but i do find it to be an attractive quality if a woman is confident in herself. Normally you see girls saying how much they like confident guys but confident women can be attractive to guys too in my opinion. depends on the guy of course. Guys are you into confident women?

Girls do any of you think of yourself as confident?

My stance is that if you look at your grandad, he could get a woman 5X the quality (virgin, cooks/cleans, obedient), just because he has a degree.

Whereas now;

You have to have your whole life in order, intelligent, money, hardworking, tall, fit everything, handsome.

For what? A girl that jumps across guys and doesn’t treat you with the true respect men deserve.

Do you agree? Just an observation. It’s so common to meet a girl that’s talking to multiple guys at once and just playing some game.