There is this guy that has taken money from me and ghosted me, betrayed me, lied to me, broke my trust, treat me like shit, he has no good qualities?

[Anonymous]

No good qualities at all in anyway, he is a drunk grambler, i dont like anything about him, but i still wanna talk to him i dont know why, i still want him around, what is wrong with me? Do i hate myself taht much or something is that why i wanna talk to him? Can someone please give me some advice?

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+1 y

I dont hate myself at all, am successful, i dress the best everyday, i look good everyday, this is something i don’t understand, i go out and i do have fun, i set boundaries with everyone except this one person its sucks that i lose control with this person

[Harness]

The narratives we give... You seem quite hurt...
Why don't you take yourself out, buy some clothes, cook some new meal, go watch a new movie at a cinema you've never been to, or start learning something new.

You need to get out of your head, appreciate life, meet new people -I don't mean date new people. Maybe buy a new cosmetic -that cleanser you've always wanted to buy but just never got around to.

You're just too young to be this sad dwelling on such matters -these matters. You're human, you are beautiful, and I don't think you hate yourself. It is impossible to hate yourself.

[Anonymous]

Nope. Sounds like a typical woman. Good luck with that.

[catarecute]

you are in love. love is so blind and dangerous. i am having the same problem. the best think i would say that help me is to become a workaholic. focus on building wealth and knowledge and dont focus on this massive dick.

[YesterdaysChild]

Some people just can't learn from their mistakes. It's like their gun is empty and you give them more bullets to shoot at you.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think that you hate yourself, but I think you might be too gracious. It sounds like you know everything that is wrong, but you keep wanting to give second chances. I’m the same way too sometimes. That’s something that a lot of us do, we keep holding onto hope that things will change, and they don’t. We hope things will work themselves out, and they don’t. We keep giving undeserving people too many chances and we keep putting up with people we shouldn’t have to put up with.

[Anonymous]

You answered your own question.

You must really hate yourself.

[Anonymous]

You're lonely?