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I'm a Christian but I've been in a sexual relationship with my boyfriend for about 10 months. For a few months, I've been having feelings of guilt after sex and it literally seems like I'm being sent messages from God to stop having sex before marriage.

I told my boyfriend about this and he said we can work on it together a week ago but yesterday, he brought it up again and said he doesn't think it'll be possible and that he'd not be able to cope. We cried on the phone for hours. He said the chances of him cheating are high and he might get frustrated if we go through with it. I appreciate his honesty and I love him very much.

He's a good man too. He kept begging me to help him; to compromise because he didn't want to loose me over something like this. He literally cried very bitterly and I almost folded but, I kept thinking that if he didn't want to loose me, he'd be willing to go on this journey with me. I told him we are allowed to fail because we're trying to stop and it's obviously not going to be easy.

I'm just really disappointed because he is a Christian like me and I didn't expect this answer but then i also totally understand because he is big on sex.

I'm really confused... If you've ever been in a situation like this, please help. If you've not please what do you think can save us?

I’m 28F and have no friends, I’m content I think but worry I will regret being so isolated years down the line. I hold grudges & as bitter as I sound, I really do feel like people can be infuriating & you’re better off alone in some instances. I have low patience & tolerance when people cross that line. I had a friend back in HS that seemed like a decent-ish person but was irritated when she came across as self absorbed. I stopped talking to her, she picked up on that & she tried adding me on social media last yr but I denied it. I had a gamer friend but he also was a bit conceited so I removed him from our gaming platform & social media (I don’t think he knows it yet). I’d rather just be alone then deal with people that have a tendency to irritate me, it may come across as if I have low standards when it comes to relationships but that isn’t the case. I feel deep down I’m a loner & try not to settle for that bs. Am I just surrounded by crappy people or am I hasty & quick to cut people off? I don’t date either, I’m probably even worse when it comes to that