Why can’t I find “the one”?

[Anonymous]

I’m always ending up in just… plainly.. unhappy relationships. I know social media can distort other relationships by making people look happier than they are, but I just don’t understand why I can’t even get remotely close to that. I always end up in situationships and give more than I receive, and end up staying too long to where I find it difficult to leave when I know it’s not good for me. It hurts. When will I find someone who will love me the way I can love them?

[Guy13]

Get out and about. Start simple. www.meetup.com REAL people in real life.

[Fireguy17]

It can take a while and it is a lot of work.
For one change where you are looking, because it seems like you keep ending up with the same type.
Maybe one of the better online dating sites where you have to pay to join.
It helps keep those that are just looking to hook up at bay, and the vast majority of those people are looking for a relationship.

[Emanon25]

I am sure you will find the right guy, just take your time to know who’s he.

[In_Trance]

because you're desperate
desperation is ugly and people sense it