My parents won't support me?

[Anonymous]

hi, my name is cj and im 15 years old. my parents won't support me and I don't know why, i don't have any underwear, i barley have any clothes and im just overall an emotional wreck at this point. MY MOM ONCE TRIPPED OVER ME because i came out as lesbian and she said "I'll never buy u anything ever again" I'll never forget that day and to top it off it was the very same day she was about to buy me clothes... after a long ass while of course. it NEVER happened. i never got anything after that y'all, most of my underwear is mostly torn or either uncomfortable. i once pleaded with her to buy me deodorant and she just looked at me in disgust.. i was never the same after that 😔 ever since then, I've been neglecting myself, my relationships and my health... hell, I even thought ending it all would work still dk if i should do it. i hate my mom. I don't know, maybe im juss throwing a tantrum but for all it's worth.. i hate that bitch. she recently had another kid and i feel like she's more distant. someone PLEAAAASEE HELP ME AND TELL ME WHAT I SHOULD DO.

my dad... they're both the same. my dad dipped on me when i was 3 years old but we still talk. should I cut him off? the guy hasn't provided for me ONCEEE, IM TELLING Y'ALL.. NOT ONCEEEE!! last month i considered selling my phone for a few bucks to buy myself things i need and since it's illegal to work at 15 in my area i didn't sell my phone, cuz it was my only hope of communication with my online friends... not much ago i thought about taking them to a courthouse for not supporting me but i just hesitated and abandoned that plan. if you're wondering who i live with, i live with my aunt and my cousins. and they don't seem to be doing much either, my younger cousin is spoiled rotten... she gets anything she wants and me, man fuck this😔 i have to steal clothes and underwear in this house to get by. my aunt is a hustler and we're struggling. SOMEONE PLEAAAASEE TELL ME WHAT I SHOULD DO, IM BEGGING... or am i in the wrong?

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by the way, my mom and dad have stable jobs and yet they fail to provide the basic necessities for me, maybe im not understanding.. I don't know. my mom is also emotionally abusive. :-(

[HSalenko]

CJ, I'm not going to sugar coat it. If what you're telling us is true then you are being neglected and abused, and you need to be removed from your family to a safe home until you're a legal adult and can provide for yourself.

You're a girl transitioning to a woman and your parents are deliberately withholding things you need to live and be safe. This is not normal, and it will not end well if nothing changes, which seems unlikely without the law stepping in. Contact CPS or your area's local equivalent. If you're in the US, it will come under names like CPS, SS (social services), DCFS (Department of Child and Family Services), or DSS (Department of Social Services).

You can go to your school, or talk to them directly by placing a phone call. You can also go to a police station, or call the covenant house national crisis helpline at 1-800-999-9999, or the Child Welfare Information Gateway about domestic abuse and neglect at 1-800-394-3366.

Please seek help from these pathways, you're a person and a very young one at that who deserves a chance in life.

[boggboss]

Pretty sure their should be services at your school u can report this too that can help

[Agape93]

Hon when you get to school, go to your guidance counselor. Tell them everything. Neglect and abuse is something they are legally mandated to report and will likely contact CPS, and they may remove you from her custody. You are a minor and she is required to care for you.

[Anonymous]

You are not in the wrong, you have horrible parents, but sadly at your age there is not much you can do.

[Jack0ff779]

call protective services cps child protective services because what they're doing is parental abuse

[Guy13]

I’m sorry to hear this.

[Danny_dan92]

Speak up.