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Search Results: should i ask her out first date
If a woman ghosts me before our first date, is it okay for me to ask out another woman?
Days ago, I met a woman at the mall and asked her out and she said yes. She gave me her number. So I texted her about my date idea, days later, and she texted back acting confused and she won't respond to my further texts...
Asiancel
Xper 1 Age: 31 Should I break up with him or am I overreacting?
My boyfriend leaves on long trips that he says will last a 3 weeks but goes on for months. When first started dated 5 months into the relationship he said he'd be leaving for a 3 week trip , a month cane asked when he'd...
Anonymous
(18-24) I acendently invited two guys to my dance? What do I do and who should I take?
I asked the first guy Tommy on Monday. Tommy is a freshman and I am a junior so we are going as friends. I texted and He said I'll have to see. He did not respond for 24 hours so two days after I texted him and said...
CAPLOVE
Xper 5 Age: 19 I have a crush on my mother's friend's son?
Hi I'm new here, A few days ago I attended a wedding, Older cousin was getting married and the wedding was really crowded with people, My mother ended up inviting a friend of hers which I've never heard about to my...
EmmaDon61
Xper 1 Age: 27 Should this red flag end our relationship?
My boyfriend and I have only been together for 3 months. We moved quickly. After our 2nd date, he asked me to move in with him. He told me he was going to marry me the first day he met me. The only reason we are not...
Lueluna777
Xper 2 Age: 26 Girls, If you really wanted to hook up with a guy and he originally asked you out on a traditional date would you rather have him just ask you over?
So I’ve been chatting up a girl I met online for 2 weeks. She’s real and verified. We talked on the phone and everything matches up. I was teasing, funny and flirty in my messaging but never brought up sex. She also...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do I tell an INTJ guy over text that I really like him? And that I want to know if there’s a chance to properly date him?
Problem here: the INTJ is in a open relationship and he made some hints that he is not really down for only physical stuff. He needs first somewhat of a connection. And he moreover said that he uses the open relationship...
Anonymous
(30-35) I think a woman tried to catfish me on OKCupid using photos of another real local woman? Should I identify the real person & let her know?
So here is the timeline of events: I comment on a OKC girl’s profile. She responds and we start a conversation. I give her the my phone number and she texts me from a local number I notice a day later her OKC profile goes...
Anonymous
(36-45) Dating Tips for Women
I've written my dating tips for guys already, so to follow up, here are my tips for women. As I mentioned with the last post, with any advice, take it or leave it! You don't have to believe as I do, it's just opinions...
Anonymous
(36-45) Stay Away From The Scam!!!
This is a topic that is near and dear to my heart when it comes to fashion: the annoying way in which so many women and teens are getting scammed by dresses from disreputable websites that send them something that looks...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do mediocre or below average men act like they have many options?
So i find a lot of these losers on OLD. one mediocre skinny guy even asked me out in real life then said he didn't feel the "spark." i know most of them on online dating apps just want to hookup and aren't looking for...
Anonymous
(25-29) My boyfriend made an insulting comment I can’t stop thinking about, what do I do?
My boyfriend of 11 months said something pretty hurtful the other day that I can’t stop thinking about. As I was getting out of the car from a date he stopped me and said “you would always be honest with me right?” I said...
Leapinlemon
Xper 1 Age: 21 Is she interested in me as a friend or as something more?
So I started talking to this girl I met through a dating app. She didn't specify what she was looking for though, but I was still interested in her regardless as friends, casual, something serious, etc. We got to talking...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why would a guy say he doesn’t want to see you again?
HE asked me out on the date. I said ok. We went on a few dates. I asked him where he thinks it’s going. He said he doesn’t feel anything at all for me, he never thinks about me, and he never misses me when he’s not seeing...
missgurl1029
Xper 3 Age: 30 At what age should a guy who wants children consider surrogacy if he doesn't find the right woman to marry and start a family with?
Now all my life I have wanted children. Naturally I also want a wonderful long lasting marriage that goes without saying since I want children. But, my circumstances doing a career change without anything else to fall...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I have given him a chance or was it right leaving?
I liked this guy for a year and he found out in Oct. I was told he heard me talking about him in the cafeteria. He was right behind us. Fast-forward to two weeks ago: I was with my friend Anna (his female cousin) outside...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is it worth talking still?
There is a guy I met. He seems nice. However, when we first met in person, he talked a lot. Like a lot. He was really the only one talking. I interrupted him occasionally to give my 2 cents, but that was about it. I am...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why would a guy ask you out if he wasn’t sure about you?
always see this cute guy around and I’m friendly and flirty with him. I didn’t feel any interest coming from him. Surprisingly, he asked for my number. He didn’t text me until almost 3 days later. He seems very aloof and...
missgurl1029
Xper 3 Age: 30 Should I date someone else or pursue my friend?
I have a work friend. For my bday we went out she bought me drinks. I was having relationship problems with my ex ( we’re both bi ) and she told me I shouldn’t be with an insecure guy. I asked her why she hadn’t flirted...
Anonymous
(25-29) Took a shy girl on a second date. she is very flirty, but no kiss until I asked her in Spanish. No thank you text after this date, only the first?
Went on a second date with this girl. Everything was going well. She is very flirty and loves to hold hands. I think she’s a little reserved. We went skating, grabbed some food, and went to a boardgame café to end the...
Anonymous
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