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I’ve been with my girlfriend Becky for a long time. I think I love her and I really enjoy spending time with her. However, she’s recently shared her ugly past with me. When she was in her younger years she had a rep of sleeping around.

She apparently was the school slut who got tagged teamed by the jocks. Becky even told me about how when she was 15 and had fuck buddies in their 30’s. And how when she was in university she dated 3 guys at once and caught chlamydia and gonorrhoea twice. Even used Only Fans to pay for school.

Even worse, she supposedly slept with other men when she was married. Her excuse was that her and her husband broke up and stayed married so he wouldn’t get deported.

After knowing all this I’m starting to look at her differently. Sometimes I see Becky the same way I see the woman in the picture. But it’s hard to leave Becky because she is trying really hard to make this relationship work. I’m a low value man with no proper education and job, and she makes feel like a high value man with the way she treats me. She really wants us to get married and keeps telling her friends Im gonna but her a ring. But it’s a tough decision for me.

She wants to meet my parents and I know they’re not gonna like her at all. My parents are and have always people skills. They can pick up on things.

The other day beck told me she’s having suicidal thoughts and being with helps her not think suicidal. She’s undergoing therapy atm.

Another question: Does being mutuals ("friends") with someone on places like TikTok, Instagram, and/or Snapchat count?

Hi, I haven't dated in real life in several years not because of lack of confidence, energy, not having intersting things to talk about or the fact that no matter how many times i try people just dont try themselves.

What's happened? We use to court people we were generally interested in you know get to know them. You know how many times i've been asked on discord, snapchat, or freaking any social media where girls ask me in a day will you be my boyfriend? Like I see girls complaining about being abused this is one of the exact reasons why.

Like everytime i see a girl now dressing like a thot im just like why. no mans gonna want to be with you long term dressing like that whats the point.

Last time a girl approached me in public im 30 this girl was probably in freaking highschool and she coomes upto me flaunting her cleavage adjusting her boobs and haviong her friend check her ass to see if its haning out of shorts and then struts over to me and goes "hey big boy" to which i reply. "what the fuck you doing you crazy thot your suppose to stay over there not come over here thats why we call you that hoe over there.

Feel free to rant post your stories heck even get a few reply convos going on here.
Like what are your views on how soceity and dating has become what has gotten you so angry that you want gouge out the eyes of your unwillingly victims so sadisctly

A discussion recently occurred on r/Asianmasculinity, where an Asian male was talking about the complete double standards that Asian women have for Asian men and white men.

A snippet from OP discussion called "Different Dating Requirements for Asian vs. White Men"

"I’ve noticed that Asian women (ex. my female friends) hold Asian men to much higher standards—expecting them to have a car, a house, or a high income—while not requiring the same from white men. In addition, these women expect Asian men to pay for dates and experiences, but are fine to split with white men."

Many users were in the comment in agreement and even cited a Yale study that supported it

Yale sociologist Grace Kao: “In fact, we find that despite the higher education and income of Asian American men, there is evidence that they are systematically excluded from having romantic relationships during adolescence and young adulthood”

Some even explained why so many non-white women see white men as gods and chase after them in the west.

"Social status: white men in white circles gain immediate acceptance due to familiarity bias.

Pretty privilege: White men in Asian circles gain immediate acceptance due to pretty privilege (it is internalized that euro features are more handsome)

So in the eyes of a white worshipper, the white man already brings those values to the table by virtue of being white."

". Being with a white partner gives prestige that being with an Asian cannot. So Asian guys are required to compensate with material success.

Just stay away from these types of women and find someone who’s actually ride or die. I’m not saying don’t strive for success of course. But give it to someone who isn’t fucked in the head by internalized racism."