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Why am I so afraid to reach out to people in fear I'll bother them?
I really need to put a stop to this, as it's affecting the time I get to spend with family and friends (and we all know that this is not an unlimited resource), and it's also preventing me from forming more connections...
Should I end this or continue talking to him basically on his terms?
I was going out with this guy for a month we went on dates and hung out together basically everyday for a month. He left to Europe for a trip with his family for a month and since he’s been gone he’s barely reached out to...
How do I stop acting so awkward around my crush?
I've always hung round with lads and considered one of the boys even though I'm very girly. I just find men to be fun and easy going. If I don't fancy a lad I'm usually able to laugh, joke and get on really well with them...
Am I in the wrong for being attracted to a guy that’s 10 years older than me?
Hi, I’m an 18 year old female that’s about to graduate from high school in two months and there’s this guy that’s a substitute teacher at my school and at first it was just a tiny attraction towards him, (started when I...
Should I pay an ex back?
So it was about June 2024 we ended, for many reasons. I (24) didn’t feel like he put effort in. So he (20) didn’t ask me out, just told people we were dating. I told him to pick a movie one day and I’ll come over in...
I’m so confused? He kept staring at me but then suddenly stopped, why?
There’s this guy in my lecture, and he would always stare at me. We repeatedly made eye contact during lectures, he turned around to look at me multiple times, tried to catch my eye multiple times, done a double take when...
Nudity in movies/Tv shows?
My partner and I (both in our 20’s) genuinely have a great relationship. We rarely argue, very happy together, kid together etc… but whenever we do have the odd fight it’s ALWAYS over the same topic, nudity. Now I know...
Why would a guy flirt with me when he knows I’m married?
A guy I know has started flirting with me quite a lot, why does he bother when he knows I’m married. He does the following: Checks me in regularly stares and engages in locked eye contact, he doesn’t look away. What does...
Maladroit Mid-Life-Musings: Bullying, Bystanders and Regret (25 years later)
I'm turning 40 in a few days, so I've been all sorts of reflective recently. I don't know anybody who would want to hear all of this. So...I'll throw it up on the internet for people to read; or not. I'm writing this...
Did you ever have a crush on someone who already has a boyfriend or girlfriend?
Yesterday I went to the birthday party of a friend of my parents. I was introduced to the girlfriend of someone my brother knows from a football club he often goes to. I was immediately attracted to her and I couldn't...
Why do people be here thinking this is the Jerry Springer show?
Just like Springer's stage, this forum is a breeding ground for drama, where seemingly mundane questions serve as catalysts for explicit tirades. The topics are unsophisticated: infidelity, relationship squabbles,...
Guys, do avocados increase your libido?
I saw something about this being the case on the internet and decided to give it a try, so I ate like 4 or 5 avocados a day for a couple days. The following days after eating that many avocados, I found myself craving sex...
If he doesn’t trust me why does he keep reaching out?
I’ve been talking to this guy online for over a year now. I really enjoyed our conversations and there was a really good spark on a s*xual level. He asked my name right away which I found a little odd, later I found out...
Why does my autistic sister try to act like everyone else and not accept herself as a neurodivergent?
Neurodivergent I hope I got this right. My sister was born autistic according to my parents. Can you be born with autism? I thought it was a developmental disability. Anyways she’s always been in a special education...
I discovered his true identity, at first he acted ok with it - why is he friend-zoning me 9 months later?
I got really into this guy on tumblr and we were literally chatting every day for hours. I was getting a really good vibe from him, he was friendly and took his time getting to know me before we started talking about...
Why would a man awkwardly look away as your eyes meet?
We were sitting opposite to each other, listening to a romantic song from 50s and he was taking me a video of me blowing a candle and talk about my thoughts while I was looking around in the air, he had his head leaned in...
What are mens opinion on women wearing leather trousers?
Couple years ago I went out with some work friends for drinks. I was new to the area and was used to going out drinking in the city were the night life is abit more glamorous and people dress up more compared to the small...
I think it’s hard to have a genuine relationship with my father because of his step family.. what to do?
I stopped talking to them after a falling out and I feel like I was the only one putting in effort to try and rekindle and apologize for the part I played.. it left me feeling depressed and lonely/ rejected.. and it led...
Hi, I’m wondering if a guy likes me because we’ve been texting for the whole week and everyday it’s from morning till night?
Me and him are childhood friends from elementary and we got reunited just now. Now after a couple months of talking I went to a park and i forgot that it was near his school and he texted me asking “where have you been in...
Guys, How easy is it for you to switch off your feelings for a girl you're attracted to (Details below)?
I'm just curious how easy it is for you to switch off your feelings for a girl that you're really attracted to? Can you switch your feelings on and off like a light? Do you have lingering thoughts throughout the day but...
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