Search Results: broken up and gotten back together

My ex wants to be friends but I feel like I can't. How do I go about this?

I (M35) had recently had a mutual breakup with my ex (F33) of 16 years back in early March. We have a daughter together. We didn't fight or and everything was pretty amicable. Of course I started going through the...

JT017

Xper 2 Age: 37

Dating

Is this just friendly behavior?

Been seeing this girl. Last week we broke the touch barrier. Cuddled and held hands multiple times. Last night, we went to an event together and dinner afterwards, and went back to her house for a little bit before I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Anyone make sense of this message from my on-again-off-again boyfriend?

So I've been seeing this guy for about two years and we break up and get back together so often, we are both fiery, explosive people so we have wicked fights and break up for a few days then come back together in a storm...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why did he ask me to do this if he was just going to ignore me?

I work with this guy that I like. We flirt here and there but nothing too major. He told me that he was working on the day that I had off and said that I should pick up a shift so that we could work together. I ended up...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when your ex does this?

Ex of four years, broke up with me again over small stuff right before we were supposed to move in. Said he had doubts and didn’t feel it was fair to me that he couldn’t get over minor issues we supposedly moved past....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

My boyfriend won’t get rid of a tattoo he has of his ex?

My ex and I recently got back together we broke up 2 years ago because he was still involved with his child’s mother, I caught him texting other women and he asked me to get a abortion because he wasn’t ready for another...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I need advice on these emotions I’m feeling post break up?

I was in a relationship with my ex for four years. I wasn’t perfect in anyway I definitely had my fair share of issues. The only difference between me and him was that I took accountability for my issues, and I tried my...

Cass510

Xper 5 Age: 29

How to handle this situation with him?

Known him since 2015. We have a great connection that we both cherish. We talk about that often. We've always talked regularly. We talk for hours every time. We don't see each other often, different countries. Last time...

MysticCat

Xper 2 Age: 33

My ex wants me to be cool with her new boyfriend. How should I deal with her?

So basically we spent 16 years together, since we were teenagers. We have a 12 YO daughter. By the end of the relationship both of us wanted out because I held on to grudges for too long and she could just bounce back...

JT017

Xper 2 Age: 37

Why won’t he give me my stuff back after he broke up w me?

Trust has been broken w him multiple times. I found out something happened when we broke up the first time and he lied to me about when we got back together. When I found him w that girl he stopped sharing his location...

Ih8boys18

Xper 1 Age: 26

Guys, What are reasons why you would break up with someone that you love?

My boyfriend broke up with me on March 15th. He said his reason was because he felt that we were on "different life paths" and that he would like a girlfriend who is a programmer like himself. I'm trying to wrap my head...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I really need help with my situation to figure out what is going on here, I am beyond devastated and confused, was this all my fault?

She's 34 I'm 34, and I thought she was the one. We had 2 years together, I cooked for her, made breakfasts, treated her with kindness and respect and always gave her the space she needed. The last 3 months she started...

Sopwith724

Xper 1 Age: 36

How do you get over an ex?

I just broke up with my first real girlfriend a week and a half ago. She treated me well, but we couldn’t agree on religion or food. I miss the good times we had, the sex, the fun dates, but I do not miss the arguments....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Concerned about the relationship between my boyfriend and his girl work friend, should I ask him to not talk to her anymore?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 10 months. Recently, after a two-week break up, we got back together. I noticed he was frequently discussing his female friend who helped him land a job. Though he reassured...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Have you ever been in one of these ‘clockwork’ situations (see the bold below)?

And if so, how did you escape it? This was always one of my fave old jams. Its basically where you know someone isn’t good for you but you end going back to each other over and over again. And the song goes like...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

My husband cheated on me last weekend curious if there's anyway to move past it?

We have been working through some stuff lately. The last couple of years all of the responsibility for our family has been on him. I broke my arm and my leg and was down for a long time and honestly I'm still having...

Brokenbabygirl

Xper 1 Age: 45

Does this mean my fiance hasn't forgiven me for taking longer to commit?

She has accepted it but suggested us to still go to couple counseling, her tone of voice didn't sound too happy and postponed things till the next year and is still hurt I've taken too long (well we were together for 7...

Anonymous

(36-45)