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I went through this about 10 years ago. My then 25 year old girlfriend made more than me when I was 32. But at the time I was pursuing a dream (I was a professional athlete) and I my time was consumed with training. I was no dead beat but I just had a different focus at the time.

I was doing freelance work just to pay the bills and I was struggling. She even offered me money at one time (which extremely kind of her) but it I turned it down out of pride and went further in debt.

Anyway the insecurity was on my side when it can to this (also contributed to our break up). She didn’t care but I did. It had a lot to with being raised to “be a man” when it came to being a breadwinner.

Nowadays I make a lot more money given I’m retired from my sport and have full focus on my career. But I am also a lot more “boring” now since I’m no longer the free wheeling adventurer I once was.

But money is a touchy issue. Form a evolutionary perspective I really do believe most women still subconsciously expect a man to provide for them even it’s unnecessary or impractical. They might get into short term flings with guys who offer other benefits (looks, excitement, adventurer, personality, etc) but when it comes to long term commitments they have a much higher bar on this

I also believe when a woman makes more money then her boyfriend/husband she’s more prone to cheating. Especially if she is comparable to him when it comes to looks (maybe she will stay loyal if she’s physically unattractive compared to him)

In fact I believe it’s unfairly more socially “acceptable” for a woman to do this given the guy is considered a “chump” if he is financial dependent on her. More more acceptable then vice versa.

I have a divorced uncle who worked a low paying his entire life and was supported by his (comparably) rich wife. She was no multi millionaire but she earned a lot more than him.

She ended up cheating on him the entire marriage. He tolerated it because they had kids and he needed support.

My friend got drunk with another guy a few months ago and they went out for drinks then they went to this bar which turned out it to be a broth*l with Romanian girls, they just went for drinks and he was paying for them putting in his pin and in total they took 600€. His mistake for not reading properly and putting his pin in, he had been drinking. He didn’t go back as they could be dangerous people.

For him, his family is rich and it makes no difference to his lifestyle it’s more just an annoyance and disappointment that feeling that you got robbed/scammed. He can only be more cautious now.

It happened in Spain I looked it up and it was a restaurant that also turns into a broth*l or something with poles.

Think about it. Compare the beauty of your conventional boy/man and your conventional girl/woman. The Mr average I post below is more on the "not that ugly" side if I say so generously:

Now. The girls & women can take this to another level with their beautifications and look like this. Men and boys can not. This super pretty one resembles in some ways the pink haired cat girl.

Boys & Men have very limited choices to be eye candy. They can either go for a look for someone like the Serious Sam guy or they can turn into transgirls and follow the beauty ways of girls & women.

And we've not yet covered the ugliness of the average boys/men such as geeky dorks, nerds, who look like moles with their glasses and those, that can't make use of most of the beautification things of girls without looking like an obvious man trying to imitate as a woman.