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Which is a better idea

A. James, who was raised by his father, has been isolated his entire childhood and even home-schooled. The father has trouble getting him to be an adult, so James' sister Syhrita (pronounced Sigh - ree - tah) takes him in, but struggles with helping him date, make friends, and other social aspects of life. (this is a dramedy)

B. This is a story of 3 friends on a journey. Two guys, Dornell Smith an inspiring singer and rapper, and Timothy Benson an inspiring scriptwriter. Both who would sell their soul to be famous go through battling and juggling relationships, family matters, and financial hardships. They go through their journey with childhood friend Vena (aspiring social media influencer, actress, and model) who would do the same for fame, but with the unique struggles of a woman.
(this would be a comedy with some cartoonish tones)

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No I’m not a sociopath. In fact I am sometimes too empathetic for people.

Anyway I have known a few in my life (even regrettably dated one in the past). I can’t change their nature but just accept the sad fact they can never be trusted. Sociopaths will only value people to the point they get value out of them. This can be sneaky because their “value” can mean different things. It can be looks, money, sex , social optics, etc. Even the ones who are heavily involved in “social justice” initiatives just want the social kudos that come along with it vs. really caring about the people they are supposedly fighting for. Sociopaths see life as a chessboard.

They get paranoid about being “found out” because when they know when that happens people don’t trust them. They need to be trusted to gain their own ends. So they are good at acting and behaving seemingly genuine. But when no one’s looking they will be the last to inconvenience themselves to help someone else who can’t repay them. That’s the acid test of identifying a sociopath; how do they treat people who can’t benefit them.

With all that said a part of me can’t help a bit envy for these people at times. They seem to always get what they want. Sociopathic men usually do (at least initially) very well romantically with women compared to more empathetic men.

It’s because they come off as confident and non chalant because they aren’t worried about hurting a woman’s feelings. They understand the concept of challenge and good at being manipulative. But they put on acts like they care to convince them otherwise. And of course they become the nasty heart break stories women complain about. Then some of these hurt women generalize ALL men for these asshole’s bs.

But on the flip side it must be a heavy burden knowing that you can never really be trusted and must always cover your ass.